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To print a copy of an Free Enneagram ebook
The study of the Nine Temperaments is called the Enneagram and is described in the free ebook listed above. The Enneagram types (Temperaments) are not made up of lists of character traits, but are founded in a person's core values. Each Temperament represents what that person considers something very important to their life such as power, security, harmony, knowledge, fulfillment, i.e.
Your Temperament enables you to make a valuable contributions to your life; but it also causes you to neglect other values, creating a psychological ‘blind spot” for you.
This is why, if you:
“KEEP DOING WHAT YOU BEEN DOING, YOU WILL CONTINUE TO GET WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN GETTING.”
Index of More Articles about Leadership
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More Articles about Leadership
Emotional Intelligence of Giving
by William R. Murray
"We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give." - Winston Churchill. What are you giving? Are you interested in new ways to give? Here are some possibilities.Give to your favorite non-profit....
The Importance Of Leadership Development
by Sean Supplee
More and more companies these days are seeking for help from various firms that offer leadership development. This is because they believe that the trainings that they give would be beneficial not only...
Emotional Intelligence: Another Key Factor To Success
by fris
Everybody wants to be successful in life. But what is success? How do you go about being successful? Is success only for people who have high IQ? How come there are intelligent people who are not successful...
Can Emotional Intelligence Be Successfully Incorporated In Daily Life?
by Pramila Mathew
Emotional Intelligence is a relatively new concept in psychology. It can make a great difference in the way various matters are perceived because it determines the way we handle ourselves and others. Handling...
Emotional Intelligence: Why it can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman
by Prasoon Kumar
Feelings play a large role in our lives, and we recognized the fact long ago but gave little importance to understanding it since we simply could not find out more on the subject. Even those research studies...
The Intelligence of Emotions: Will the Real Definition of Emotional Intelligence Please Stand Up
by Joshua Freedman
The most recent NexusEQ Conference included delegates from over 100 disciplines and 37 nations gathered in Holland to see how emotional intelligence improves leadership. On EQ.org, more and more practitioners...
The Law of the Garbage Truck
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We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches!
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Leadership And Management Training Programs In Government
by Bryce Smith
One of the errors made by many people is to think that management leadership training and all the different styles of leadership can just be transferred anywhere, and will be equally applicable in every...
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1, 3, and 5 - The Competency Temperaments Types...........................These Temperament Types have learned to deal with conflict and problems by putting aside their personal feelings and striving to...
What Is Leadership Development?
by Sean Supplee
As defined, leadership development refers to any method or activity that aims to enhance the quality of leadership within an individual or a person heading an organization. Before, leadership development...
How to Get Happiness
by Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach
I'm a coach who works with clients on personal and professional development issues. While no client has ever specifically asked me to help them become "happier," I think it's the purpose, yes? Our goals,...
Emotional Intelligence
by Michael Williams
According to statistical research, emotional competence is twice more important than technical or intellectual skills. Developing emotional intelligence is understanding and managing emotions to create...
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You are a Victim by Choice
Roy E. Klienwachter
There are no victims - accidents do not happen by chance and illness is intentional.
Before we are born and while in the afterlife or beforelife, it is our individualized decision to come to the physical world. We choose our parents and time of birth that will best facilitate what it is we choose to experience in this incarnation or birth time.
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'In A Heartbeat' Highlights The Bright Side Of The Tuohys
Michael Oher's adoptive parents talk about giving and receiving off the football field Leigh Anne and Sean Tuohy, the ebullient Memphis couple who made Michael Oher their third child, enrolled him at Ole...
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Because we are internally connected at some level of consciousness, all beings are in agreement before our births as to our parents and those who would interact with us after birth.
This must be so if we are in agreement that there is only one consciousness in the universe - one mind that is experiencing physical life through its individualized souls, spirits, or egos. There is logic and agreement with all things physical in order for them to be present or exist in the physical world. A tree can't be rooted unless there is agreement with the earth that it will support the tree. What often appears as random is not - all things have order even in the so called state of chaos.
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A support group for family members and friends of alcoholics meets each week at the Alachua Club, 32 N. Third in Fernandina Beach at 11:00 a.m. on Sunday, Monday, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday and at...
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A forest fire can't exist without something to burn. The trees must agree with nature for a fire to be able to express itself as a forest fire. All of life and all of its possibilities must be expressed or experienced. Therefore a tree cannot be a victim of a forest fire, but a willing participant. The tree expresses its power and autonomy by agreeing to be burned. A fire expresses its power and autonomy by burning the trees - it is natural and deliberate.
It is the creative nature of the one mind to express or experience anything that it can imagine. Physically, it all happens here, in the physical universe.
A plane cannot run into a mountain unless the mountain is there. There is an agreement between the plane, the pilot, and the mountain. A plane crash cannot occur unless these elements are in agreement at some level of consciousness. Now, this may sound absurd on a conscious level and I would agree. However, on another level of consciousness or enlightenment, it all makes sense. Plane crashes are physical facts of life - they are a physical occurrence. There can't be a plane crash unless someone thought of it and manifested the incident. All things come together to make it happen. All objects are expressing their presence by being in the right place at the right time for a physical event to happen. Everything is life whether it is considered inanimate or not - all objects must express their autonomy, their existence by being in the right place and the right time to be observed as autonomous. Now a mountain can be seen and appreciated without a plane smashing into it. Because plane crashes are imagined and created in our minds - those so called accidents must have opportunity to express themselves as are the spoken words, "plane crash." It may be in your head, but sooner or later it must be spoken in order to be recognized as words or fact. In the same way that objects express themselves, so do humans. Humans are declaring themselves in every moment of their physical lives. There can be no victims unless an individual wishes to express themselves as a victim. Victimhood in a human convention that must be expressed or manifested by choice, and it is an opportunity. Because very few of us are in communication consciously with our inner consciousness, these things sound ridiculous. Why would someone want to be a victim? Why would someone want to have terminal cancer? Why would someone want to be murdered, raped, or beaten up? It sounds cruel, arrogant and insane to suggest that a person would want to be a victim and I would concede that if one cannot see the greater picture, then it would be all of these things. The difference between one that sees themselves as a victim and the one that sees themselves as a willing participant, is that one has power and the other is powerless. The difference between a victim and the observer is that the observer is judgmental and judges the other as a victim. They are projecting their own feelings about victims onto the other. One could also say that the observer is a victim of their own ignorance or prejudice. You can never be a victim of circumstance unless at some level of consciousness you agree to be in the right place at the right time to be a victim. No one can do anything to you unless you agree to it at the level of your creativity first - it is done by choice even though you may not consciously understand or agree to it. Having said that, then it would seem that it is really a good idea to be in contact with your spirit, inner self, or subconscious so that you can be proactive rather than reactive. All things happen for a purpose - for a reason whether we understand it or not. Once again, there are no victims unless being a victim is what you want to experience. A battered wife may be considered a victim of her husband - but it is a choice. She always has the choice or opportunity to leave one way or the other. She may not see the choice, but she makes it anyways, subconsciously. A murder victim puts himself in the right place and right time by choice or in this case poor choice, to be murdered. Humanity knows that there is another part of themselves that can be communicated with. We pray we do affirmations, chants, dances, meditations and all sorts of things to access that communication. Mediums, intuitives, channellers all have that ability to contact the subconscious and see future events. Accidents and illness are avoidable if you know that they are probable. The way to make them improbable in your own experience is to not give them energy. If they are in your mind and the more you think about them, the more likely you will experience them. All things imagined are experienced at some level of your consciousness or experience. There are no such things as natural disasters in that they don't happen randomly. They are created like any other experience and you place yourself in that experience as a victim or not, by choice. Your thoughts about famine are expressed somewhere in the world whether you experience it first hand or not. Your thoughts about war are expressed somewhere in the world whether you are directly involved in it or not. Your thoughts about terrorism are expressed physically somewhere in the world whether you are involved with it or not. Terrorism could not be expressed unless someone or many have thought about it. Denying it or trying not to focus on it gives it just as much energy as practicing it. If you do not want war, being against war or trying to avoid it, still gives it energy. As long as the word is in your head, you are giving it a place in reality. Think about peace and peace is what you will create - keep peace in your mind, and it is all you will experience. Think about what you want, not about what you do not want. Think about good health and leave out fear of illness and you will experience good health. In any situation if you see yourself as a victim with no choice - you have given up your power in favour of experiencing being a victim. Even if you declare yourself as a non-victim you have created your victimhood by using the word. So, if you are not a victim then you are actively participating by choice! All of life's circumstances are opportunities for you to express yourself in what ever manor you choose. They are co-created by you through your subconscious and in agreement with the life force. There is wisdom behind the phrase "Be careful what you wish for - you may get it." It could also be expressed as "Be careful what you think - you will create it." Retain your power on all levels of your consciousness and you will always be a participant, give up your power and you will become a victim.
Roy E. Klienwachter is a resident of British Columbia, Canada. A published author, a student of NLP, New Age Light Worker, Teacher and Phenomenologist. Roy's books and articles are thought provoking, and designed to empower your imagination, and take you to places you would never have thought of.
Claim your copy of Roy's new book at: http://www.yourlifewasnevermeanttobeastruggle.com
Visit Roy at: http://www.klienwachter.com
Additional Resources
The overall orientation of Sandra Maitri group will be the shifting over time of one's identity and sense of self from the personality or ego to our deeper and ultimate nature — Being; and just as importantly, the integration of this experiential knowledge such that one's everyday life becomes a lived and fulfilling expression of that deeper nature. The confluence in recent decades of the streams of psychological and spiritual wisdom afford a wide range of unprecedented avenues of access to spiritual development. This confluence will be an important part of the orientation of this group.
Did you know?
The Power of Nine is your Key to Happiness and Joy.
There are nine Temperaments. Fifty percent (50%) of your happiness is determined by your Temperament.
Understanding your Temperament Type allows you to work with it and increase your own happiness. The ways individual people inherently view the world/themselves and process information are not the same but do tend to group in different clumps.
Pick the person about that you admire, like and think you are like and click on that number below and listen to the Video.
One way to view this distribution is as nine basic Temperaments Types. They all need different experiences to be really happy.
What do they really want?
Temperament One examples are: Hillary Clinton, Tom Brokaw, Martha Stewart, Al Gore, and Tony Randall. These people want to be good. They have high ideals and value and are attracted to situations where those ideals are met. They want to realize all their potential and help others actualize theirs. They envision making the world a better place to live.
Temperament Two examples are: Bill Cosby, Alan Alda, Nancy Reagan, Dolly Parton, and Pat Boone. These people want to know they are loving. They want to nurture others and foster relationships. They value and are attracted to love. They envision making the world a more loving place to live.
Temperament Three examples are: Oprah Winfrey, Tom Cruise, Tiger Woods, Lance Armstrong, and Bill Clinton. These people are attracted to and value productivity, industry, and competence. They envision making the world more productive, organized, efficient, and smooth running. They see the universe as chaos and want to really make it a cosmos, a harmonious and orderly system.
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Temperament Four examples are: Michael Jackson, Johnny Depp, Nicolas Cage, Neil Diamond, and Angelina Jolie. These people want to be unique individuals with lots of originality. They enjoy putting their personal touch on everything in which they are involved. They also value beauty and want to make the world a more beautiful place to live.
Temperament Five examples are: Bill Gates, Albert Einstein, Howard Hughes, George Lucas, and Karl Marx. These people long for wisdom, understanding, knowledge, truth. They want to make the world a more enlightened place by discovering what is real and true and making it more intelligible to others.
Temperament Six examples are: Helen Palmer, Michael Moore, Tom Hanks, Rush Limbaugh, Richard Nixon, and Mel Gibson. These people want to make the world a safer, more secure, more reliable, more trustworthy place to live and they will question anyone’s authority in their effort to do so. They value loyalty in themselves and others and stand by their commitments.
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Temperament Seven examples are: Robin Williams, Steve Jobs, Tom Hanks, Anthony Quinn, Richard Branson and Terry Bradshaw. These people want to enjoy life and experience all its possibilities. They value joy and variety. They envision making the world a more delightful place to live.
Temperament Eight examples are: Martin Luther King, Jr., FDR, Sean Connery, Donald Trump, and John Wayne. These people want to live life fully and freely. They are attracted to, appreciate, and effectively use power. They envision using their strength to influence others and bring about a more just world where power and resources are equitably distributed.
Temperament Nine examples are: Barack Obama, Ronald Reagan, Abraham Lincoln, Jimmy Stewart, Carl Jung, and Dwight Eisenhower. These people want to feel at one with others and at home in the universe. They value peace, harmony, and unity. They envision making the world a more harmonious, ecumenical, and comfortable place to live for everyone.
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Why do we use numbers?
Names such as: Twos, Giver, Caretaker, Helper, Nurturer, or Advisor, are commonly used to decribed the Temperaments Types. We use numbers instead of any names.
We use numbers to designate each of the Temperament Types because numbers are value neutral. They imply the whole range of attitudes and behaviors of each Temperament without specifying anything either positive or negative.
The numerical ranking of the Types is not significant. A larger number is no better than a smaller number.
No Temperament Type is inherently better or worse than any other. While all the Temperament Types have unique assets and liabilities, some Types are often more desirable than others in our society.
You may not be happy with your particular Type. You may feel that your Type is “limited" in some way. As you learn more about all the Types, you will see that just as each has unique capacities, each has different “limits.”
People do not change from one basic Temperament Type to another. Some Types are more valued in our society than others; it is because of the qualities that society rewards, not because of any superior value of those Types.
The descriptions of the Temperament Types apply equally to males and females, since no Type is inherently masculine or feminine. Not everything in the description of your basic Type will apply to you all the time because you fluctuate constantly.
Why aren’t all people with a given Temperament Type successful?
You probably know a bunch of people with the same Temperament Type. Why are some successful and others are not. Why the difference? The difference is Emotional Intelligence. We use Emotional Quotient. (EQ) as a shorthand to describe Emotional Intelligence.
A person may have a high IQ. They did well in school, maybe have a college diploma or even an advanced degree. They may even be in MENSA, the select high-IQ club and still fail in business and relationships. Why are they not successful?
The answer:
Your IQ determines 20 % of your success, which leaves 80% to other forces. This is stated by Daniel Goleman the Author of “Emotional Intelligence.”
A person with a high IQ does not mean they know how to manage their thoughts and feelings any more successfully than a person with a low IQ. Success requires taking the emotional data, making sense of that data, and integrating it into your decision-making. People with higher EQ does this better.
By increasing your EQ you can use your thoughts and emotions of your Temperament Type to make the best possible decisions. Increased EQ help you get optimal results from your relationships with yourself and others.
EQ challenges the conventional belief that emotions are in the way of good decisions. By increasing your EQ it is possible to learn how to use your emotions to make better decisions. By increasing your EQ, it is possible to increase your wisdom and energy required for high performance. The Increasing your EQ is a teachable life skill. If people get better at these life skills, everyone benefits: The brain doesn't distinguish between being a more empathetic manager and a more empathetic father
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The Just Wait Teen Program
The teenagers of the Just Wait Teen™ program are exposed to the information and research concerning their Happiness, their Temperaments, their Talents, their Attributes, their Gifts and how to maintain long term relationships. The Just Wait Teen™ program is life enhancing program, not a substance rehabilitation program. Although its' objective is to give the teens tools and understandings to reach 21 years - substance free.
This Program was developed by the Just Wait Foundation a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit corporation to prevent drug, alcohol, and tobacco problems among teenagers. The Foundation provides one-year scholarships (two semesters) at a Community College or $1000 award to teens that completes the 4 year Just Wait Teen™ Positive Youth Development Program, obtains a GED, or graduates from high school - alcohol, tobacco, and drug free. The Just Wait Foundation has arranged to use of 80 acres to raise fruit and vegetables to finance the scholarships
We offer free training for any person or group that wants to start this program in their community.
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The Art Of Flattery - Using Flattery To Become More Attractive
by Christine Akiteng
Many people completely hate the word "flattery" and to even say there is an art to this makes them shudder with total disgust.In a culture where everything is either right or wrong with very little room...
Improving Your Self Confidence And Self Image Thus Attract People'S Attention
by Stephen Kavita
Are you wondering why people do not give you a second chance or no chance at all, yet you have brilliant business ideas? Or maybe you have academic qualifications but no company seems keen to hire your?...
Myths about Self-Confidence
by Tony Robinson
People who have self-confidence believe in themselves and feel that they are capable of achieving what they want in life, or dealing with any situation that they may have to face. They have an aura of...
Nobody likes a do-gooder: Study confirms selfless behaviour is 'alienating'
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Do-gooders can be resented because the 'raise the bar' for what is expected of everyone, psychologists believe They probably think their selfless behaviour makes them popular but the truth about 'do-gooders'...
Emotional Manipulation Techniques: Dirty Tricks People Use To Manipulate Others
by Michael Lee
A lot of people tend to use emotional manipulation techniques to get their way. Unfortunately, a vast majority of the population doesnt even realize that theyre being manipulated until its too late....
Self Deception = Personal Tragedy
by Bill Knell
Its easy to get caught up in self deceit and thats one of the biggest reasons for problems that we experience in our lives. While no lie is good or acceptable, the worst case scenario is when we start...
What is Servant Leadership
by William Cole
A servant leader's primary objective is to serve others. Servant leaders seek to serve the well-being of others through their goals and work.Ownership - In servant-led organizations, employees want to...
A Victim No More: Freeing Yourself to Live a Fulfilled Life
by Chris Robertson
The self-help psychology movement has provided hundreds of thousands - if not millions - of people with the tools they need for healing their body, mind, and spirit. On the whole, these tools are wonderful...
Don't be a Victim of Negligence
by Lala C. Ballatan
As we go on with our daily life, we always make a point to be responsible and careful enough against accidents and other unfortunate incidents. We can not foresee what will happen to us during the next...
Just Wait Teens™ program
by Carl LaFresnaye
The Just Wait Teens™ program has been 8 years in development. The theory behind the program is based on the research of the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse. Joseph Califano, the former...
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