"Emotional Intelligence , Twos, Glad to be able to share, their gifts with others"

Awareness to Action: The Enneagram, Emotional Intelligence, and Change
by Robert Tallon & Mario Sikora

This book has the best presentation about the business use of the Enneagram. It is very pragmatic and "business friendly".

While the needs of a business audience have shaped the model of the Enneagram presented, It is considered as a model for pragmatists--people who are seeking growth but uninterested in the mystical, psychospiritual elements so often associated with the Enneagram...... "Business audiences are not soft audiences, however.

These audiences tend to be challenging and skeptical .... They sniff out inaccuracy, inconsistency, and fuzziness and will either tune you out ... or they will turn on you like sharks that sniff blood. If you can spend a day teaching the Enneagram to a group of 30 engineers or lawyers and survive, your model is solid

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Emotional Intelligence , Twos, Glad to be able to share, their gifts with others

To print a copy of an Free Enneagram ebook

The study of the Nine Temperaments is called the Enneagram and is described in the free ebook listed above. The Enneagram types (Temperaments) are not made up of lists of character traits, but are founded in a person's core values. Each Temperament represents what that person considers something very important to their life such as power, security, harmony, knowledge, fulfillment, i.e.

Your Temperament enables you to make a valuable contributions to your life; but it also causes you to neglect other values, creating a psychological ‘blind spot” for you.

This is why, if you:

“KEEP DOING WHAT YOU BEEN DOING, YOU WILL CONTINUE TO GET WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN GETTING.”

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The Orange Trangle in the above image points to the RESPONDIVE TEMPERAMENTS which move toward thinking. They are:

Temperament 1 – The members of this Temperament are moving toward right thinking. Correct behavior is a result of knowing what is right and what is wrong. This knowing is obvious to the member, yet not obvious to others. From the member's perspective it's not the member who is determining what is right, it's simply an absolute unquestioned obvious about what is right. Doing is preferred to thinking. We call members of this Temperament - Reformer – Perfectionists. Temperament One examples are: Hillary Clinton, Tom Brokaw, Martha Stewart, Al Gore, and Tony Randall. These people want to be good. They have high ideals and value and are attracted to situations where those ideals are met. They want to realize all their potential and help others actualize theirs. They envision making the world a better place to live.

Temperament 2 – The members of this Temperament are moving toward the thinking of others. Anticipating the needs of others can arise from knowing what others are thinking. There's a habit of assuming the image or emotions that will please others. To this member, this doesn't seem like manipulation, it's simply finding the right approach to make that emotional connection that seems so vital. Feeling is preferred to thinking. We call members of this Temperament - Giver – Helpers. Temperament Two examples are: Bill Cosby, Alan Alda, Nancy Reagan, Dolly Parton, and Pat Boone. These people want to know they are loving. They want to nurture others and foster relationships. They value and are attracted to love. They envision making the world a more loving place to live.

Temperament 6 – The members of this Temperament are moving toward the thinking of an authority. This member questions their own thinking and the thinking of others. The quest is for a trusting source of reason and rules. If the member can find a reliable and trusted source of thinking then the questioning, doubt, and resulting anxiety may fade. Trusting is preferred to thinking (to say it another way, the preference is to trust the thinking of an authority, but the difficulty lies in finding a trustworthy authority). We call members of this Temperament - Loyal – Skeptics. Temperament Six examples are: Helen Palmer, Michael Moore, Tom Hanks, Rush Limbaugh, Richard Nixon, and Mel Gibson. These people want to make the world a safer, more secure, more reliable, more trustworthy place to live and they will question anyone’s authority in their effort to do so. They value loyalty in themselves and others and stand by their commitments.

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Twos, will: Do that for you * Emotional Intelligence

Emotional intelligence   
linda miller

Emotional intelligence involves knowing how to deal with people, who acquire different characters, without knowing how to deal with people who are, rigid aggressive, self centered or those who exhibits dysfunctional behavior can be difficult and therefore leaders who are intelligent enough are required to be able to handle them. People believe that innate personality is highly connected with emotional intelligence; intelligence quotient is the most driving force in training and development industry. Emotional intelligence can be referred to as the product of personal competence and social competence, personal competence described as standard collective power of yourself awareness and self management skills.(Carter MC Namara,1997)

Components of emotional intelligence

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Self regulation-this is ability to think before you act or before taking any necessary steps towards somebody. One can also be in apposition to control and redirect disruptive moods and impulses. It includes; comfort with ambiguity, trustworthiness and integrity, openness change and self control.(Caudron,1999)

Motivation-this is a strong drive that makes people to work beyond money and recognition. It involves great persistence and dedication towards achieving target goals and objectives set. In organization level it is having strong commitment and dedication to achieve the success.

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Social skills-building good rapport between the people that you are relating with and working with brings about having strong social skills. Also building strong networks and having effectiveness in implementing change, persuasiveness, and having expertise in building team.

Empathy- this is a personality character that is associated with understanding emotional make up of other people. It involves ability to retain your talents, skills, cross cultural sensitivity and continuous provision of service to clients and customers.

Self awareness-it includes understanding of oneself, personal moods, self confidence, realistic self assessment, and self deprecating sense of humor.

Evaluation of my former manager on emotional intelligence.

The following questions will help in evaluation of manager's emotional intelligence;

1. Do you provide frequent and regular opportunities for employees to voice their compliments?

2. Have you been listening to your employees with 100% attention?

3. Are you able to treat your members in terms of humility, respect, timely and in sense of humor?

4. Do you publicly recognize your employees who are top performers and reward them?

5. Have you been generating sense of ownership to your employees?(Goleman,1998)

Application of emotional intelligence.

Effective application of emotion intelligent is necessary for creation of good relations between the leaders and employees. Leaders and managers in general must practice the technique of emotion intelligence to help the work hand in hand with each other and without causing any conflict. Managers should refrain from giving orders since this is considered disrespectful and destroy commitment and innovation. All employees should be provided with proper information concerning the whole organization. High values of standards must be used to explain a new policy that governs the organization. Finally it is important to let people use their brains to solve problems facing the company on their own. (Warren Bennis, 1994)

How organizations' promote emotion intelligent

* By transferring ownership for work to people who do the work.

* Developing individual capability and competence.

* By creating conditions that challenges everyone in the organization.

* Aligning organization structures in a way that clear message is sent and that promotes excellence in organization.



The author Linda Miller has academic writing experience of over ten years. She holds a PHD in education from Harvard. She has been assisting students in writing professional academic papers including thesis, dissertations, research papers and term papers. braviaresearchpapers.com

Temperament Two examples are: Bill Cosby, Alan Alda, Nancy Reagan, Dolly Parton, and Pat Boone. These people want to know they are loving. They want to nurture others and foster relationships. They value and are attracted to love. They envision making the world a more loving place to live.

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Temperament Seven examples are: Robin Williams, Steve Jobs, Tom Hanks, Anthony Quinn, and Terry Bradshaw. These people want to enjoy life and experience all its possibilities. They value joy and variety. They envision making the world a more delightful place to live.

Temperament Nine examples are: Barack Obama, Ronald Reagan, Abraham Lincoln, Jimmy Stewart, Carl Jung, and Dwight Eisenhower. These people want to feel at one with others and at home in the universe. They value peace, harmony, and unity. They envision making the world a more harmonious, ecumenical, and comfortable place to live for everyone.

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Why do we use numbers?

Names such as: Twos, Giver, Caretaker, Helper, Nurturer, or Advisor, are commonly used to decribed the Temperaments Types. We use numbers instead of any names.

We use numbers to designate each of the Temperament Types because numbers are value neutral. They imply the whole range of attitudes and behaviors of each Temperament without specifying anything either positive or negative.

The numerical ranking of the Types is not significant. A larger number is no better than a smaller number.

No Temperament Type is inherently better or worse than any other. While all the Temperament Types have unique assets and liabilities, some Types are often more desirable than others in our society. You may not be happy with your particular Type. You may feel that your Type is “limited" in some way. As you learn more about all the Types, you will see that just as each has unique capacities, each has different “limits.”

People do not change from one basic Temperament Type to another. Some Types are more valued in our society than others; it is because of the qualities that society rewards, not because of any superior value of those Types.

The descriptions of the Temperament Types apply equally to males and females, since no Type is inherently masculine or feminine. Not everything in the description of your basic Type will apply to you all the time because you fluctuate constantly.

What is Barack Obama Temperament?
Daniel Goldman, author of Emotional Intelligence

The Just Wait Teen Program

The teenagers of the Just Wait Teen™ program  are exposed to the information and research concerning their Happiness, their Temperaments, their Talents, their Attributes, their Gifts and how to maintain long term relationships. The Just Wait Teen™ program  is life enhancing program, not a substance rehabilitation program. Although its' objective is to give the teens tools and understandings to reach 21 years - substance free.

This Program was developed by the Just Wait Foundation a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit corporation to prevent drug, alcohol, and tobacco problems among teenagers. The Foundation provides one-year scholarships (two semesters) at a Community College or $1000 award to teens that completes the 4 year Just Wait Teen™ Positive Youth Development Program, obtains a GED, or graduates from high school - alcohol, tobacco, and drug free. The Just Wait Foundation has arranged to use of 80 acres to raise fruit and vegetables to finance the scholarships

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