"Free Oprah Workshop You Can do On-Line at Home"

Find Your Strongest Life: What the Happiest and Most Successful Women Do Differently
by Marcus Buckingham

Today women are better educated, have better jobs, better pay, more choices about mates, careers ... just about everything. But that has not translated into women being happier. Actually with more choices the opposite is true. Womens overall happiness has been on a steady decline since 1972. This decline in happiness occurs across the board, regardless of whether women have children, how many they have, or how much they earn.

Marcus Buckingham is a well known researcher. He has written five previous books which centered around the concept that each person will be happiest when they are working from their greatest strength. Find Your Strongest Life got its start from a three hour workshop with Oprah. The workshop was conducted with 30 talented but unfulfilled women.

In his mission statement Marcus says, "My mission is to help each person identify her strengths, take them seriously and offer them to the world."

As you read the book you will discover facts, read some eye opening research, and see that many women are living a life based on myths more so than truth. Reading the stories of women seeking will help you to see that you are not alone on this journey.

Dude, Where's My Gratitude?   
Jennifer Louden

I'm writing this miles above the earth, sitting in a steel capsule, hurtling through space on my way to give a speech.

(Writer Anne Lamott says she doesn't believe in flying. I know what she means.)
The title of my speech is "Creating All That You Need With Just What You've Got", which as many of you know, is the subtitle of my book, The Comfort Queen's Guide to Life.
When I choose the title for my talk, I was thinking only about giving the hospital a catchy title to draw people in. I had not given much thought to the actual content of the speech. What I sat down to prepare, to think about what I really wanted to say, I became very curious. I sat and stared out at the blustery afternoon, wondering, "How do you create all that you need? Is it possible? Isn't it what we all want?"
Here is what I came up with -- the five paths for creating all that you need with just what you've got.
1) Show up
You can't create anything if you aren't here in the present moment. We create from the present moment. We problem "solve" from the past.
2) Gratitude
As my friend and brilliant coach David Martin says, "Gratitude is the mood that opens up our creativity." (more on gratitude below)
3) Self-Nurturing
How can we create anything if we don't believe we are worth it? How can we believe we are worth it? Through sustained, gentle, compassionate healthy self-nurturing. Search our site; we have over 500 articles on self-nurturing.
4) Listening
A regular practice of listening to ourselves, to our own wisdom, to our own bodies, to our intuition, to Spirit, and to others is the only way to discern the unfolding path of our lives.
5) Receiving
Perhaps the hardest practice of all. We love to give. We all want to make a contribution with our lives. But how often do we allow ourselves to simply accept -- the ideas, the offer from a friend, the compliment? When we block receiving, we block God.
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MORE ON GRATITUDE
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You are in a mood right now. What mood is it? Check in with yourself. Moods prime us for certain actions and not others. Resignation and resentment are moods that point us toward giving up, blaming, slumped shoulders and limited options. Gratitude is a mood that points us toward softening, opening our eyes wide, and beginning to wonder with curiosity and love what we can create to give back, to create more of this wonderful feeling. Gratitude brings us into the present moment, helps us show up for what is right now.
Here is the best story I've ever read of the power of gratitude, from a reader of mine. Sue had moved two years before to a new life of her choosing, yet not without regrets. She had returned to her former hometown on business and had a free moment to drive through her old neighborhood. Sitting outside her house, she writes, "Looking at my old house, this wave of grief for what I had and was not grateful for, for what I had and was not present for, washed over me. I saw a parade of moments of grace and beauty and meaning that I had canceled out because I either told myself, "I'm not good enough to have this, I shouldn't be this lucky" or "This it's not enough, that woman over there has a nicer body and she lives in a bigger house and she has children and why should she have that and not me?" As I sat in my rental car and I cried, and I cried, and I cried with grief, suddenly I was overcome with a wave of gratitude that literally broke my chest open. I could feel something give way in my solar plexus as I realized, with my entire body, I have so much right now."
The Practices of Gratitude:
"You say grace before meals. All right. But I say grace before the concert and the opera, and grace before the play and pantomime, and grace before I open a book, and grace before sketching, painting, and swimming, fencing, boxing, walking, playing, dancing, and grace before I dip the pen in ink." -G. K. Chesterton
Say grace not just before meals, but before any activity that matters to you.
Create a Gratitude Calendar and express gratitude each month for a different subject like People You've Known or Artists or Nature. Each day take a moment to express your gratitude for something or someone that relates to that category.
Write a thank you note or email to someone every day for a month. Your partner, your plumber, your 3rd grade teacher. Don't make it long, just make it heartfelt.
Fill Post-it notes with gratitude quotes and place them where you are least likely to feel gratitude: your car during rush hour, a folder you will open during a contentious meeting.
Watch your talk -- when you find yourself complaining or blaming, close your mouth. Do not finish your sentence. Take a deep breath. Show up. Now find one thing TO SAY OUT LOUD that you are grateful for. Dude, that's gratitude and it's just what you need.

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