Signs that you might be in an emotionally abusive relationship include; constantly being humiliated and criticised, you find yourself trying not to make your partner angry, being isolated from friends and family, having to constantly defend what you were doing and who you were with, you feel helpless, stressed and have a low sense of worth and lastly, your partner blames you for everything that goes wrong when it clearly cannot be your fault.

To survive verbal emotional abuse and to avoid remaining or getting into an emotionally abusive relationship try not to lose your support network. That is, do not let anyone make you isolate yourself from your friends and family. Friends and family are there to help you through any confusion or stress you might begin to feel from the abuser. They can even help you recognise the signs of an emotionally abusive relationship. As soon as you lose your support network, the easier your abuser can control your emotional well being. Also, recognise the signs of verbal emotional abuse. The first time your partner tries to control you by using fear, manipulation or guilt or they freely think it is their right to humiliate and criticise you, then leave. That shows the abuser that you won't let anyone treat you with disrespect. Do not make excuses for the abuser, they will not change. They only want to feel in control because they feel inadequate and not in control of their own life. Listen to your instincts; they will be the first to hint that you are facing verbal emotional abuse.

If you do leave an emotionally abusive relationship, avoid contact with the abuser. If the abuser tries to convince you that they have changed or won't be abusive again, do not believe them. They have not changed and are only seeing what they have to do each time to get you back into their life. Abusers only care about themselves; they know how to manipulate you in order for you to believe they are a new person or that they are remorseful for their behaviour.

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Names such as: Sixes are the: Loyal Person, Devil's Advocate, Faithful Skeptic, Guardian, or True Believer are commonly used to decribed the Temperaments Types. We use numbers instead of any names.

We use numbers to designate each of the Temperament Types because numbers are value neutral. They imply the whole range of attitudes and behaviors of each Temperament without specifying anything either positive or negative.

The numerical ranking of the Types is not significant. A larger number is no better than a smaller number.

No Temperament Type is inherently better or worse than any other. While all the Temperament Types have unique assets and liabilities, some Types are often more desirable than others in our society. You may not be happy with your particular Type. You may feel that your Type is “limited" in some way. As you learn more about all the Types, you will see that just as each has unique capacities, each has different “limits.”

People do not change from one basic Temperament Type to another. Some Types are more valued in our society than others; it is because of the qualities that society rewards, not because of any superior value of those Types.

The descriptions of the Temperament Types apply equally to males and females, since no Type is inherently masculine or feminine. Not everything in the description of your basic Type will apply to you all the time because you fluctuate constantly.

Why aren’t all people with a given Temperament Type successful?

You probably know a bunch of people with the same Temperament Type. Why are some successful and others are not. Why the difference? The difference is Emotional Intelligence. We use Emotional Quotient. (EQ) as a shorthand to describe Emotional Intelligence.

A person may have a high IQ. They did well in school, maybe have a college diploma or even an advanced degree. They may even be in MENSA, the select high-IQ club and still fail in business and relationships. Why are they not successful?

The answer:

Your IQ determines 20 % of your success, which leaves 80% to other forces. This is stated by Daniel Goleman the Author of “Emotional Intelligence.”

A person with a high IQ does not mean they know how to manage their thoughts and feelings any more successfully than a person with a low IQ. Success requires taking the emotional data, making sense of that data, and integrating it into your decision-making. People with higher EQ does this better.

By increasing your EQ you can use your thoughts and emotions of your Temperament Type to make the best possible decisions. Increased EQ help you get optimal results from your relationships with yourself and others.

EQ challenges the conventional belief that emotions are in the way of good decisions. By increasing your EQ it is possible to learn how to use your emotions to make better decisions. By increasing your EQ, it is possible to increase your wisdom and energy required for high performance. The Increasing your EQ is a teachable life skill. If people get better at these life skills, everyone benefits: The brain doesn't distinguish between being a more empathetic manager and a more empathetic father

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