"Facing Emotional Abuse , Sixes wonder, I get anxious and then look for reasons why I'm anxious"

The Spiritual Dimension of the Enneagram: Nine Faces of the Soul
by Sandra Maitri

Sandra Maitri's "The Spiritual Dimension of the Enneagram" is, without doubt, the most insightful and meaningful book on the nine temperaments, but caution potential readers that this is not a "beach read" and is best suited as reading for those who are seriously ready to take a deeper look at their own psycho-spiritual essence and soul. This is not a pop-psychology "personality typing" book, but rather a valuable guide for people on their journey of self-discovery, transformation and self-realization.

The book DOES touch on the Nine Temperaments of the enneagram in the personality type" context most people know it, and it covers the psychological aspects of the different types. The majority of "The Spiritual Dimension of the Enneagram" is dedicated to a thorough discussion of each of the nine temperaments, examining the way each has "lost touch" with its essence or "Holy Idea;" describing the psychological and environmental circumstances for these losses, and then offering guidance on how to recover the part of the self that has been lost.

The term "sprituality" by no means makes this a "religious" book. Instead, it is a book about understanding and healing our souls, regardless of religious orientation.

Would You Like Help to Determine your Temperament?

     

Facing Emotional Abuse , Sixes wonder, I get anxious and then look for reasons why I'm anxious

To print a copy of an Free Enneagram ebook

The study of the Nine Temperaments is called the Enneagram and is described in the free ebook listed above. The Enneagram types (Temperaments) are not made up of lists of character traits, but are founded in a person's core values. Each Temperament represents what that person considers something very important to their life such as power, security, harmony, knowledge, fulfillment, i.e.

Your Temperament enables you to make a valuable contributions to your life; but it also causes you to neglect other values, creating a psychological ‘blind spot” for you.

This is why, if you:

“KEEP DOING WHAT YOU BEEN DOING, YOU WILL CONTINUE TO GET WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN GETTING.”

Index of Articles about the Loyal Skeptic


Other Articles about the Loyal Skeptic

How to Know When Your Fear Becomes Paranoia by Greg S. Baker

We fear many things in life. This is normal and even natural. But when that fear turns into paranoia it becomes a paralytic. We no longer function like we should. We don't do what we ought to because of...

Depression Can Become Chronic if Untreated by healthtree

Medical researchers based at the Yale School of Medicine recently published a study showing that postpartum depression in mothers could develop into cases of clinical depression if untreated. The group...

Warning! Verbal Emotional Abuse That Will Scar You! by Christina Glass

Emotionally abusive relationships are behaviour based, they are not physically abusive. Verbal emotional abuse is used to control another person. The abuser will use fear, humiliation, intimidation, guilt...

A look at chronic depression and it's treatments and symptoms by Akhil nair

Another lengthy variant of depression, Chronic Depression or Dysthymic Depression is much less overwhelming and nonetheless seen a chronic form.Dysthymic Depression does not end a person from executing...

What Happens When The Man You Loved Abuses You? You Need To Know The Abusive Relationship Signs Before Your Self-Esteem Is Crushed ! by Christina Glass

Abusive men come in all forms. Some abusive men only verbally abuse, other abusive men only physically abuse. There are abusive men who verbally, physically, mentally, sexually and financially abuse their...

Healing from Domestic Abuse - The Creation and Implication of Fuzzy Versus Firm Boundaries by Dr Jeanne King PhD

People treat you the way you teach them to treat you. If you request and insist on your boundaries being honored, they will be. On the other hand, if you allow others to determine whether to respect your...

Word really hurt by Angela Baker

Have you ever been told by someone that you love or by someone of higher authority that words don't hurt? Have you been told that as long as you are not being hit, that it is ok to be abused?Well think...

Chronic Depression - What is It and How Do You Avoid It? by David Richards

If you suffer from a depression, you should do all you can to avoid it become chronic and take over your life. This include appropriate medication as well as your attitude. Going for the right kind of...

Emotionally Abusive Relationship Intervention - 3 Keys to Freeing Yourself from Emotional Abuse by Dr Jeanne King PhD

A psychologist in India recently asked me to write about the following - How can a woman, one without access to professional help, take steps towards freeing herself from an emotionally abusive relationship?As...

Will Depression Lead to Chronic Depression Problems? by Jerry Cahill

Depression is not something that just one day shows up. Usually it is something that one builds towards based upon the amount of adversity one deals with over time and how one approaches that adversity....

Regaining Your Self Esteem After an Abusive Relationship by Tony Robinson

Abuse relationships have the capability to inflict tremendous physical and psychological distress on the individual in the relationship. In addition to emotional and literal scars that are caused by abusive...

Abusive Men: Top 10 Signs Of An Abusive Man by Stephany W Alexander

Abusive men are often survivors of abuse themselves. Signs of an abusive man can range from emotional, verbal, physical, or sexual abuse. Frequently an emotionally abusive man is also a verbally abusive...


Marriage - Are You Facing Emotional Abuse?   
CD Mohatta

Those who have control and power can inflict emotional abuse. It is as bad as physical abuse. Some people call emotional abuse as worse than physical abuse. Let us discuss about emotional abuse.

Emotional abuse may leave deep scars on the psyche. In emotional abuse the perpetrator withholds all the emotional satisfaction from the victim. The self-dignity of the victim is bruised repeatedly and he/she is shown as a lesser person. Emotional abuse can take many forms. Devaluing the person is one such abuse. Giving no value to a person's intelligence and opinion, and repeatedly questioning his/her intelligence is one such abuse.

Article to continue below----------------------------------------------

Commentary: Tiger's Marriage To Elin Over, But Personal Struggles Remain
Commentary: Tiger's marriage to Elin over, but personal struggles remain
Greene Goes Face To Face With A Skeptic
Greene goes face to face with a skeptic

----------------------------------------------------------------------------

Public humiliation of a person is another kind of this abuse. To make someone feel inferior and laugh at him/her and make others join the fun is another form of emotional abuse. Feeling of safety is our emotional need. to make a person feel unsafe is another way of victimization. Threatening to leave that person alone without any help and terrorizing him/her is one such form.

Taking away financial freedom, making the person totally dependent on the abuser is another common abuse. Lack of money can stop the victim from enjoying some pleasures. Some abusers even withdraw the use of communication instruments such as telephone etc from the victim.

Article to continue below----------------------------------------------

Loyal Di Keeps Herself V Busy
OLLY MURS is locked in a feud with twin Ben, but he can always rely on pal Diana Vickers
Luke Bryan Gives Five Minutes Of Thanks To Loyal Fans
I've got two words for Luke Bryan . "You're welcome." After he spends nearly five minutes thanking his very loyal fans for so many things that have happened to him so far in 2010, I can't help...

---------------------------------------------------------------------------

Emotional abuse can take many other such forms. these abusers are sadists who enjoy degrading a human being and destroying their emotional freedom. This is a crime against humanity. If you are undergoing the slightest emotional; abuse, please protest and protect yourself.

CD Mohatta creates writings for free greetings. He also writes articles on marriage and solve relationship quizzes.

The Just Wait Teen Program

The teenagers of the Just Wait Teen™ program  are exposed to the information and research concerning their Happiness, their Temperaments, their Talents, their Attributes, their Gifts and how to maintain long term relationships. The Just Wait Teen™ program  is life enhancing program, not a substance rehabilitation program. Although its' objective is to give the teens tools and understandings to reach 21 years - substance free.

This Program was developed by the Just Wait Foundation a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit corporation to prevent drug, alcohol, and tobacco problems among teenagers. The Foundation provides one-year scholarships (two semesters) at a Community College or $1000 award to teens that completes the 4 year Just Wait Teen™ Positive Youth Development Program, obtains a GED, or graduates from high school - alcohol, tobacco, and drug free. The Just Wait Foundation has arranged to use of 80 acres to raise fruit and vegetables to finance the scholarships

We offer free training for any person or group that wants to start this program in their community.

Contact Us    Copyright 2009  - 2010 & Developed by  Just Wait Teens

Additional Resources

The overall orientation of Sandra Maitri group will be the shifting over time of one's identity and sense of self from the personality or ego to our deeper and ultimate nature — Being; and just as importantly, the integration of this experiential knowledge such that one's everyday life becomes a lived and fulfilling expression of that deeper nature. The confluence in recent decades of the streams of psychological and spiritual wisdom afford a wide range of unprecedented avenues of access to spiritual development. This confluence will be an important part of the orientation of this group.

Did you know?

The Power of Nine is your Key to Happiness and Joy.

There are nine Temperaments. Fifty percent (50%) of your happiness is determined by your Temperament.

Understanding your Temperament Type allows you to work with it and increase your own happiness. The ways individual people inherently view the world/themselves and process information are not the same but do tend to group in different clumps.

Pick the person about that you admire, like and think you are like and click on that number below and listen to the Video.

One way to view this distribution is as nine basic Temperaments Types. They all need different experiences to be really happy.

What do they really want?

Temperament One examples are: Hillary Clinton, Tom Brokaw, Martha Stewart, Al Gore, and Tony Randall. These people want to be good. They have high ideals and value and are attracted to situations where those ideals are met. They want to realize all their potential and help others actualize theirs. They envision making the world a better place to live.

Temperament Two examples are: Bill Cosby, Alan Alda, Nancy Reagan, Dolly Parton, and Pat Boone. These people want to know they are loving. They want to nurture others and foster relationships. They value and are attracted to love. They envision making the world a more loving place to live.

Temperament Three examples are: Oprah Winfrey, Tom Cruise, Tiger Woods, Lance Armstrong, and Bill Clinton. These people are attracted to and value productivity, industry, and competence. They envision making the world more productive, organized, efficient, and smooth running. They see the universe as chaos and want to really make it a cosmos, a harmonious and orderly system.

Would You Like Help to Determine your Temperament?

Temperament Four examples are: Michael Jackson, Johnny Depp, Nicolas Cage, Neil Diamond, and Angelina Jolie. These people want to be unique individuals with lots of originality. They enjoy putting their personal touch on everything in which they are involved. They also value beauty and want to make the world a more beautiful place to live.

Temperament Five examples are: Bill Gates, Albert Einstein, Howard Hughes, George Lucas, and Karl Marx. These people long for wisdom, understanding, knowledge, truth. They want to make the world a more enlightened place by discovering what is real and true and making it more intelligible to others.

Temperament Six examples are: Helen Palmer, Michael Moore, Tom Hanks, Rush Limbaugh, Richard Nixon, and Mel Gibson. These people want to make the world a safer, more secure, more reliable, more trustworthy place to live and they will question anyone’s authority in their effort to do so. They value loyalty in themselves and others and stand by their commitments.

Would You Like Help to Determine your Temperament?

Temperament Seven examples are: Robin Williams, Steve Jobs, Tom Hanks, Anthony Quinn, Richard Branson and Terry Bradshaw. These people want to enjoy life and experience all its possibilities. They value joy and variety. They envision making the world a more delightful place to live.

Temperament Eight examples are: Martin Luther King, Jr., FDR, Sean Connery, Donald Trump, and John Wayne. These people want to live life fully and freely. They are attracted to, appreciate, and effectively use power. They envision using their strength to influence others and bring about a more just world where power and resources are equitably distributed.

Temperament Nine examples are: Barack Obama, Ronald Reagan, Abraham Lincoln, Jimmy Stewart, Carl Jung, and Dwight Eisenhower. These people want to feel at one with others and at home in the universe. They value peace, harmony, and unity. They envision making the world a more harmonious, ecumenical, and comfortable place to live for everyone.

Would You Like Help to Determine your Temperament?

Why do we use numbers?

Names such as: Sixes are the: Loyal Person, Devil's Advocate, Faithful Skeptic, Guardian, or True Believer are commonly used to decribed the Temperaments Types. We use numbers instead of any names.

We use numbers to designate each of the Temperament Types because numbers are value neutral. They imply the whole range of attitudes and behaviors of each Temperament without specifying anything either positive or negative.

The numerical ranking of the Types is not significant. A larger number is no better than a smaller number.

No Temperament Type is inherently better or worse than any other. While all the Temperament Types have unique assets and liabilities, some Types are often more desirable than others in our society. You may not be happy with your particular Type. You may feel that your Type is “limited" in some way. As you learn more about all the Types, you will see that just as each has unique capacities, each has different “limits.”

People do not change from one basic Temperament Type to another. Some Types are more valued in our society than others; it is because of the qualities that society rewards, not because of any superior value of those Types.

The descriptions of the Temperament Types apply equally to males and females, since no Type is inherently masculine or feminine. Not everything in the description of your basic Type will apply to you all the time because you fluctuate constantly.

Why aren’t all people with a given Temperament Type successful?

You probably know a bunch of people with the same Temperament Type. Why are some successful and others are not. Why the difference? The difference is Emotional Intelligence. We use Emotional Quotient. (EQ) as a shorthand to describe Emotional Intelligence.

A person may have a high IQ. They did well in school, maybe have a college diploma or even an advanced degree. They may even be in MENSA, the select high-IQ club and still fail in business and relationships. Why are they not successful?

The answer:

Your IQ determines 20 % of your success, which leaves 80% to other forces. This is stated by Daniel Goleman the Author of “Emotional Intelligence.”

A person with a high IQ does not mean they know how to manage their thoughts and feelings any more successfully than a person with a low IQ. Success requires taking the emotional data, making sense of that data, and integrating it into your decision-making. People with higher EQ does this better.

By increasing your EQ you can use your thoughts and emotions of your Temperament Type to make the best possible decisions. Increased EQ help you get optimal results from your relationships with yourself and others.

EQ challenges the conventional belief that emotions are in the way of good decisions. By increasing your EQ it is possible to learn how to use your emotions to make better decisions. By increasing your EQ, it is possible to increase your wisdom and energy required for high performance. The Increasing your EQ is a teachable life skill. If people get better at these life skills, everyone benefits: The brain doesn't distinguish between being a more empathetic manager and a more empathetic father

The Just Wait Teen Program

The teenagers of the Just Wait Teen™ program  are exposed to the information and research concerning their Happiness, their Temperaments, their Talents, their Attributes, their Gifts and how to maintain long term relationships. The Just Wait Teen™ program  is life enhancing program, not a substance rehabilitation program. Although its' objective is to give the teens tools and understandings to reach 21 years - substance free.

This Program was developed by the Just Wait Foundation a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit corporation to prevent drug, alcohol, and tobacco problems among teenagers. The Foundation provides one-year scholarships (two semesters) at a Community College or $1000 award to teens that completes the 4 year Just Wait Teen™ Positive Youth Development Program, obtains a GED, or graduates from high school - alcohol, tobacco, and drug free. The Just Wait Foundation has arranged to use of 80 acres to raise fruit and vegetables to finance the scholarships

We offer free training for any person or group that wants to start this program in their community.

Contact Us    Copyright 2009  - 2010 & Developed by  Just Wait Teens

Index of More Articles about Leadership

More Articles about Leadership

Emotional Intelligence Is Stronger Than IQ by Abbas Abedi

Intelligence is a mental image of someone who is excellent in analytical reasoning, planning, and problem solving. He can comprehend basic and complex ideas. Emotional Intelligence is another type of Intelligence...

Leadership Development And Personal Competencies by Sean Supplee

Today, there seems to be a clear movement in viewing leadership and leadership development not only in terms of leader attributes, skills and traits. Lately, competencies (or requirements) seem to be the...

Using Emotional Intelligence to Transform Negative Emotions by ron Stock

The 2009 "Stress in America Survey" by the American Psychological Association (APA) highlighted the rising levels of stress Americans continue to experience. The APA's executive director, expressed concern...

Emotional intelligence by linda miller

Emotional intelligence involves knowing how to deal with people, who acquire different characters, without knowing how to deal with people who are, rigid aggressive, self centered or those who exhibits...

What is Emotional Intelligence? by Tristan Loo

Emotional intelligence, also known as EI, is the innate ability of a person to perceive, assess, and influence one's own emotion and the emotions of other people around them. The term emotional intelligence...

Our Attitude More Than Our Aptitude Determines Our Altitude by Jim Clemmer

"There's a thin line between being #1 or #100 and mostly it's mental." -- Jimmy Conners, American professional tennis player who won 109 professional singles titles during his careerOur society admires...

Emotional Intelligence of Giving by William R. Murray

"We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give." - Winston Churchill. What are you giving? Are you interested in new ways to give? Here are some possibilities.Give to your favorite non-profit....

How to Get Happiness by Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach

I'm a coach who works with clients on personal and professional development issues. While no client has ever specifically asked me to help them become "happier," I think it's the purpose, yes? Our goals,...

The Intelligence of Emotions: Will the Real Definition of Emotional Intelligence Please Stand Up by Joshua Freedman

The most recent NexusEQ Conference included delegates from over 100 disciplines and 37 nations gathered in Holland to see how emotional intelligence improves leadership. On EQ.org, more and more practitioners...

Just Wait Foundation by Carl LaFresnaye

The Just Wait Foundation of Denver Colorado is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization, to prevent teenage alcohol, tobacco, and drug problems by using the Just Wait Teens™ Program. This program does this...

It's EQ, Not IQ, That Will Make You More by Joe Bingham

So much credit is given to those that are smart or have an intelligence for success. But what if I told you it was EQ, not IQ, that led to that success?Years ago, I read a biography on Nikola Tesla. While...

Emotional Intelligence - an Inside-Out Job by Byron Stock

The Emotional Intelligence (EI) competencies fall into two categories: intrapersonal (existing/occurring within the individual) and interpersonal (existing/occurring between persons). The competencies...

Emotional Intelligence: Why it can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman by Prasoon Kumar

Feelings play a large role in our lives, and we recognized the fact long ago but gave little importance to understanding it since we simply could not find out more on the subject. Even those research studies...

Leadership And Management Training Programs In Government by Bryce Smith

One of the errors made by many people is to think that management leadership training and all the different styles of leadership can just be transferred anywhere, and will be equally applicable in every...