Since most of us watch plenty of television, you'd think that all of us would easily be able to catch the signs of an abusive women and men relationship, especially if we know the people involved. If you see some of the telltale signs of abuse, you absolutely have to do something because if you don't, who will?

Why is it that so many of us avoid doing or saying anything in these situations? I happen to have a friend whose aunt was in a relationship with an abusive man. Everyone knew about it and no one said anything.

I decided to confront my friend about the situation since I wanted to know how he could stand idly by while this was going on. He told me that he and other relatives had tried, but couldn't persuade his aunt to break things off and get out of the abusive relationship. She's an adult, after all and flatly refuses to leave this man.

What often happens in these abusive women and men relationships is that the abuser will isolate the victim, making them feel powerless and completely reliant on their abuser. They're kept apart from their family and friends and even worse, they often make their victim feel as if the abuse is their fault and foster feelings of guilt which keep them locked in to these horrible situations.

There are a lot of factors which can complicate abusive women and men relationships, but it's everyone's responsibility to watch out for the signs that someone we know is being abused. For instance, if a friend, family member or acquaintance of yours seems to regularly have bruises or other signs of physical abuse, talk to them about it.

Look for withdrawn behavior as well and if you see these signs of abuse in a child, you absolutely must do something immediately. A child can't fight back against their abuser or leave the situation. As an adult, it's up to you to help.

Never stand an abusive relationship in the name love.

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Names such as: Sixes are the: Loyal Person, Devil's Advocate, Faithful Skeptic, Guardian, or True Believer are commonly used to decribed the Temperaments Types. We use numbers instead of any names.

We use numbers to designate each of the Temperament Types because numbers are value neutral. They imply the whole range of attitudes and behaviors of each Temperament without specifying anything either positive or negative.

The numerical ranking of the Types is not significant. A larger number is no better than a smaller number.

No Temperament Type is inherently better or worse than any other. While all the Temperament Types have unique assets and liabilities, some Types are often more desirable than others in our society. You may not be happy with your particular Type. You may feel that your Type is “limited" in some way. As you learn more about all the Types, you will see that just as each has unique capacities, each has different “limits.”

People do not change from one basic Temperament Type to another. Some Types are more valued in our society than others; it is because of the qualities that society rewards, not because of any superior value of those Types.

The descriptions of the Temperament Types apply equally to males and females, since no Type is inherently masculine or feminine. Not everything in the description of your basic Type will apply to you all the time because you fluctuate constantly.

Why aren’t all people with a given Temperament Type successful?

You probably know a bunch of people with the same Temperament Type. Why are some successful and others are not. Why the difference? The difference is Emotional Intelligence. We use Emotional Quotient. (EQ) as a shorthand to describe Emotional Intelligence.

A person may have a high IQ. They did well in school, maybe have a college diploma or even an advanced degree. They may even be in MENSA, the select high-IQ club and still fail in business and relationships. Why are they not successful?

The answer:

Your IQ determines 20 % of your success, which leaves 80% to other forces. This is stated by Daniel Goleman the Author of “Emotional Intelligence.”

A person with a high IQ does not mean they know how to manage their thoughts and feelings any more successfully than a person with a low IQ. Success requires taking the emotional data, making sense of that data, and integrating it into your decision-making. People with higher EQ does this better.

By increasing your EQ you can use your thoughts and emotions of your Temperament Type to make the best possible decisions. Increased EQ help you get optimal results from your relationships with yourself and others.

EQ challenges the conventional belief that emotions are in the way of good decisions. By increasing your EQ it is possible to learn how to use your emotions to make better decisions. By increasing your EQ, it is possible to increase your wisdom and energy required for high performance. The Increasing your EQ is a teachable life skill. If people get better at these life skills, everyone benefits: The brain doesn't distinguish between being a more empathetic manager and a more empathetic father

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