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Index of Articles about Nine's Traits
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Other Articles about Nine's Traits
Dissociation Isn't a Life Skill
by Sandra L. Brown, M.A
Dissociation is described as: 1. The splitting off of a group of mental processes from the main body of consciousness, as in amnesia. 2. The act of separating or state of being separated. 3. The separation...
Peace Makers
by Joyce C. Lock
Some of the most beautiful people in the world are known as 'peacemakers'. They're often labeled as lazy because they don't match the energy and drive of a doer. Instead, they are more likely to rise to...
Are You In Denial?
by Holly G. Green
They say that denial is a river in Egypt. Maybe so, but I contend that denial is also running rampant in the conference rooms and corridors of most of todays companies. Im not talking about the stuff...
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A Healthy Way of Life - Health is Harmony
by mikechoen01
When addressing the problem of man's health, we should first define the conceptual evolution of the term "health" over the last thirty years. Man's health is a synthesis of physical, spiritual and social...
Disturbed memory Amnesia
by Ryan Fyfe
Amnesia, is a condition where mrmory is disturbed. Amnesia affects both organic and functional causes. An example of an organic cause of amnesia is damage to the brain, through trauma or disease. Where...
overcome co-dependency
by Ulla Sebastian
CO-DEPENDENCY REFERS TO AN OBSESSIVE NEED FOR AFFECTION, ATTENTION AND AFFIRMATION. Co-dependent people get easily drawn into the pain and problems of others, feel responsible to help people solve their...
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5 Ways To Live In Harmony With People You Don't Like Gabriel Adams
It can be difficult to be in the same room with people you don't like, let alone live with them. However, there are many circumstances where we really have no choice in the matter, so we have to do our best get along with them or at least to avoid conflict.
Here are five tips to help you live in harmony with people you don't like:
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Obama Tackles Peacemaker Role For The Mideast
WASHINGTON Plunging into the Mideast peacemaker's role that has defeated so many U.S. leaders, President Barack Obama...
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Stay away from topics where you have strongly different views and refuse to argue. If you take the view that you are entitled to your own opinion and do not need to defend it, and equally that the other person is entitled to their opinion, arguments can be avoided. There's a lot to be said for avoiding discussions on sex, religion and politics.
Find areas of agreement or similarity and focus on them. Chances are, if you get to know someone a bit better, you will find areas of commonality. Look for common ground and be willing to notice positive things about another person. Everyone has good aspects to their personality. If you are willing to acknowledge the positive behaviors and attitudes of another person, they will be more likely to open up to you and respond positively.
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Stay out of their way. Sometimes it is just not possible to be positive and keep trying to improve a relationship. Where this is the case the only answer is to be polite and respectful but live as separately as possible. This is particularly the case if the other person is abusive in any way or engaged in activities you don't want to be associated with. The best way to live in harmony with these people is at a distance, smiling politely as you pass by.
Make clear agreements. If you are sharing living space with someone you don't like, it is important to have a clear agreement about expected behaviors and responsibilities. Once the agreement is made and everyone clearly understands their own individual commitments, they need to abide by the agreement made. Doing this will help you to live in harmony with people even if you don't like them.
Establish boundaries. Decide what treatment you are willing to accept from others and what you are not prepared to accept and put your boundaries clearly in place. While everyone needs to be flexible in this life, you need to clearly define the behaviors that you consider to be deal breakers and you must make sure that other people understand them. For example, someone stealing from you might be a deal breaker as might a person taking drugs in your home. In turn, you need to understand and respect the boundaries of others. The only proviso to this point is that people aren't mind readers. It is unfair to blame others for violating boundaries they didn't know anything about. We teach people how to treat us. So the first step is to respect yourself. Clearly defined boundaries can assist people who do not like one another to live together in harmony.
If you apply some or all of these keys to living in harmony with people you don't like, you will avoid the stress of ongoing conflicts. You may even find yourself liking them after all.
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Did you know?
The Power of Nine is your Key to Happiness and Joy.
There are nine Temperaments. Fifty percent (50%) of your happiness is determined by your Temperament.
Understanding your Temperament Type allows you to work with it and increase your own happiness. The ways individual people inherently view the world/themselves and process information are not the same but do tend to group in different clumps.
Pick the person about that you admire, like and think you are like and click on that number below and listen to the Video.
One way to view this distribution is as nine basic Temperaments Types. They all need different experiences to be really happy.
What do they really want?
Temperament One examples are: Hillary Clinton, Tom Brokaw, Martha Stewart, Al Gore, and Tony Randall. These people want to be good. They have high ideals and value and are attracted to situations where those ideals are met. They want to realize all their potential and help others actualize theirs. They envision making the world a better place to live.
Temperament Two examples are: Bill Cosby, Alan Alda, Nancy Reagan, Dolly Parton, and Pat Boone. These people want to know they are loving. They want to nurture others and foster relationships. They value and are attracted to love. They envision making the world a more loving place to live.
Temperament Three examples are: Oprah Winfrey, Tom Cruise, Tiger Woods, Lance Armstrong, and Bill Clinton. These people are attracted to and value productivity, industry, and competence. They envision making the world more productive, organized, efficient, and smooth running. They see the universe as chaos and want to really make it a cosmos, a harmonious and orderly system.
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Temperament Four examples are: Michael Jackson, Johnny Depp, Nicolas Cage, Neil Diamond, and Angelina Jolie. These people want to be unique individuals with lots of originality. They enjoy putting their personal touch on everything in which they are involved. They also value beauty and want to make the world a more beautiful place to live.
Temperament Five examples are: Bill Gates, Albert Einstein, Howard Hughes, George Lucas, and Karl Marx. These people long for wisdom, understanding, knowledge, truth. They want to make the world a more enlightened place by discovering what is real and true and making it more intelligible to others.
Temperament Six examples are: Helen Palmer, Michael Moore, Tom Hanks, Rush Limbaugh, Richard Nixon, and Mel Gibson. These people want to make the world a safer, more secure, more reliable, more trustworthy place to live and they will question anyone’s authority in their effort to do so. They value loyalty in themselves and others and stand by their commitments.
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Temperament Seven examples are: Robin Williams, Steve Jobs, Tom Hanks, Anthony Quinn, Richard Branson and Terry Bradshaw. These people want to enjoy life and experience all its possibilities. They value joy and variety. They envision making the world a more delightful place to live.
Temperament Eight examples are: Martin Luther King, Jr., FDR, Sean Connery, Donald Trump, and John Wayne. These people want to live life fully and freely. They are attracted to, appreciate, and effectively use power. They envision using their strength to influence others and bring about a more just world where power and resources are equitably distributed.
Temperament Nine examples are: Barack Obama, Ronald Reagan, Abraham Lincoln, Jimmy Stewart, Carl Jung, and Dwight Eisenhower. These people want to feel at one with others and at home in the universe. They value peace, harmony, and unity. They envision making the world a more harmonious, ecumenical, and comfortable place to live for everyone.
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Why aren’t all people with a given Temperament Type successful?
You probably know a bunch of people with the same Temperament Type. Why are some successful and others are not. Why the difference? The difference is Emotional Intelligence. We use Emotional Quotient. (EQ) as a shorthand to describe Emotional Intelligence.
A person may have a high IQ. They did well in school, maybe have a college diploma or even an advanced degree. They may even be in MENSA, the select high-IQ club and still fail in business and relationships. Why are they not successful?
The answer:
Your IQ determines 20 % of your success, which leaves 80% to other forces. This is stated by Daniel Goleman the Author of “Emotional Intelligence.”
A person with a high IQ does not mean they know how to manage their thoughts and feelings any more successfully than a person with a low IQ. Success requires taking the emotional data, making sense of that data, and integrating it into your decision-making. People with higher EQ does this better.
By increasing your EQ you can use your thoughts and emotions of your Temperament Type to make the best possible decisions. Increased EQ help you get optimal results from your relationships with yourself and others.
EQ challenges the conventional belief that emotions are in the way of good decisions. By increasing your EQ it is possible to learn how to use your emotions to make better decisions. By increasing your EQ, it is possible to increase your wisdom and energy required for high performance. The Increasing your EQ is a teachable life skill. If people get better at these life skills, everyone benefits: The brain doesn't distinguish between being a more empathetic manager and a more empathetic father
Why do we use numbers?
Names such as: Peacemaker, Mediator, Naturalist, Accommodator, Preservationist are commonly used to decribed the Temperaments Types. We use numbers instead of any names.
We use numbers to designate each of the Temperament Types because numbers are value neutral. They imply the whole range of attitudes and behaviors of each Temperament without specifying anything either positive or negative.
The numerical ranking of the Types is not significant. A larger number is no better than a smaller number.
No Temperament Type is inherently better or worse than any other. While all the Temperament Types have unique assets and liabilities, some Types are often more desirable than others in our society.
You may not be happy with your particular Type. You may feel that your Type is “limited" in some way. As you learn more about all the Types, you will see that just as each has unique capacities, each has different “limits.”
People do not change from one basic Temperament Type to another. Some Types are more valued in our society than others; it is because of the qualities that society rewards, not because of any superior value of those Types.
The descriptions of the Temperament Types apply equally to males and females, since no Type is inherently masculine or feminine. Not everything in the description of your basic Type will apply to you all the time because you fluctuate constantly.
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Index of More Articles about Leadership & Emotional Intelligence
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More Articles about Leadership & Emotional Intelligence
Emotional Intelligence Offers a Core Set of Skills to Enhance Leadership Competencies
by ron Stock
Enhancing the Emotional Intelligence (EI) skills of an organization's leaders offers a solid base upon which to build leadership competencies. In today's competitive business environment leadership is...
Emotional Intelligence
by Michael Williams
According to statistical research, emotional competence is twice more important than technical or intellectual skills. Developing emotional intelligence is understanding and managing emotions to create...
EQ at the Office
by Susan Dunn, Coach
Emotional intelligence means knowing how to get along. Playing too hard at the office is just as bad as refusing to play at all, studies show. Office politics is here to stay and how you play can influence...
Just Wait Teens™ program
by Carl LaFresnaye
The Just Wait Teens™ program has been 8 years in development. The theory behind the program is based on the research of the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse. Joseph Califano, the former...
Leadership Studies Online
by Michael Bustamante
Online Leadership Studies Schools offer courses that give students the freedom to attend class anytime from wherever they choose. Programs in Online Leadership Studies prepare students who aspire to upper...
Emotional Intelligence: What's That?
by Susan Dunn, M.A., Professional Coach
You've probably been hearing that emotional intelligence (EQ) is crucial to your success in your career and relationships. Just exactly what is it and why is it so important?Emotional intelligence is what...
How to Get Happiness
by Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach
I'm a coach who works with clients on personal and professional development issues. While no client has ever specifically asked me to help them become "happier," I think it's the purpose, yes? Our goals,...
Leadership And Management Training Programs In Government
by Bryce Smith
One of the errors made by many people is to think that management leadership training and all the different styles of leadership can just be transferred anywhere, and will be equally applicable in every...
It's EQ, Not IQ, That Will Make You More
by Joe Bingham
So much credit is given to those that are smart or have an intelligence for success. But what if I told you it was EQ, not IQ, that led to that success?Years ago, I read a biography on Nikola Tesla. While...
Leadership Development And Personal Competencies
by Sean Supplee
Today, there seems to be a clear movement in viewing leadership and leadership development not only in terms of leader attributes, skills and traits. Lately, competencies (or requirements) seem to be the...
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1, 3, and 5 - The Competency Temperaments Types...........................These Temperament Types have learned to deal with conflict and problems by putting aside their personal feelings and striving to...
Emotional Intelligence: Another Key Factor To Success
by fris
Everybody wants to be successful in life. But what is success? How do you go about being successful? Is success only for people who have high IQ? How come there are intelligent people who are not successful...
Who is a Leader...Are You One?
by Stanley Ohenhen
Leadership has been severally defined by many people to mean different things. One thing that seem to be common to most of the definitions is the fact that it represents the persons in front of all the...
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2,7 and 9 - The Positive Temperaments Types..........................These Temperament Types all respond to conflict and problems by adopting a positive attitude.
They have difficulty facing dark side...
Understanding Emotional Intelligence
by Jessica Leebelt
Emotional Intelligence refers to how effectively people interact with others, specifically in the workplace. It is important to understand your emotional competencies and learn how you can improve them,...
Reasons why Relationships Fail
by amit
There are many reasons for a failed relationship. Misunderstanding and jealousy are the most common of them. Most of the couples whether they are young or they are old, married or unmarried they fall into...
Our Attitude More Than Our Aptitude Determines Our Altitude
by Jim Clemmer
"There's a thin line between being #1 or #100 and mostly it's mental." -- Jimmy Conners, American professional tennis player who won 109 professional singles titles during his careerOur society admires...
Emotional Intelligence: Why it can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman
by Prasoon Kumar
Feelings play a large role in our lives, and we recognized the fact long ago but gave little importance to understanding it since we simply could not find out more on the subject. Even those research studies...
What is Emotional Intelligence?
by Tristan Loo
Emotional intelligence, also known as EI, is the innate ability of a person to perceive, assess, and influence one's own emotion and the emotions of other people around them. The term emotional intelligence...
3 Ways To Improve Your Emotional Intelligence
by Pramila Mathew
Emotional Intelligence describes the ability, capacity, skill or self-perceived ability, to identify, assess and manage the emotions of one's self, of others and groups.[1] This article describes 3 methods...
Emotional Intelligence Is Stronger Than IQ
by Abbas Abedi
Intelligence is a mental image of someone who is excellent in analytical reasoning, planning, and problem solving. He can comprehend basic and complex ideas. Emotional Intelligence is another type of Intelligence...
Can Emotional Intelligence Be Successfully Incorporated In Daily Life?
by Pramila Mathew
Emotional Intelligence is a relatively new concept in psychology. It can make a great difference in the way various matters are perceived because it determines the way we handle ourselves and others. Handling...
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