"Marshmallows Best Predictor of Success?"

Working with Emotional Intelligence
by Daniel Goleman

Dr. Goleman did an excellent job with his second book on Emotional Intelligence because he gives more detail on how to correct the lack of Emotional Intelligence in the business and professional world.

On page 26 he tells us how to do a check up on our missing competences for emotional intelligence( both personal and social competencies) and he also mentions that there must be a continious follow up on this program to achieve a lasting effect over the change of our un-wanted bad habits and he alos mentions the guidelines for emotional competence TRAINING which is very helpful in the seminars to train management executives.

Dr. Goleman explains also that it takes months to be able to modify our personality, so that some people will not dispair because they can not get an overnight change, it takes time, perseverance and practice to become a proficient and capable executive with good emotional intelligence. Dr. Goleman also explains the effect that stress has on CONTROL and how it affects mistakes, memory and health and overall management.

In other words Dr. Goleman is helping everybody to modify their personalities to be able to produce more with less stress and wear (or exhaustion).

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Marshmallows Best Predictor of Success?

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The Stanford Marshmallow Experiment

In above video you will see kids participating in the Stanford Marshmallow Experiment. The Stanford Marshmallow Experiment must be the most astounding psychological study ever performed, or at any rate ranking right up there with some of the experiments done by Stanley Milgram.

Who would ever guess that a brief observation of a four-year old alone with a marshmallow would be an excellent predictor of college entrance exam scores — twice as good a predictor as IQ test scores? In one of the most amazing developmental studies ever conducted, Walter Michel of Stanford created a simple test of the ability of four year old children to control impulses and delay gratification.

Children were taken one at a time into a room with a one-way mirror. They were shown a marshmallow. The experimenter told them he had to leave and that they could have the marshmallow right then, but if they waited for the experimenter to return from an errand, they could have two marshmallows. One marshmallow was left on a table in front of them. Some children grabbed the available marshmallow within seconds of the experimenter leaving. Others waited up to twenty minutes for the experimenter to return.

In a follow-up study (Shoda, Mischel, & Peake, 1990), children were tested at 18 years of age and comparisons were made between the third of the children who grabbed the marshmallow (the "impulsive") and the third who delayed gratification in order to receive the enhanced reward ("impulse controlled").

The third of the children who were most impulsive at four years of age scored an average of 524 verbal and 528 math. The impulse controlled students who scored 610 verbal and 652 math! This astounding 210 point total score difference on the SAT was predicted on the basis of a single observation at four years of age! The 210 point difference is as large as the average differences between that of economically advantaged versus disadvantaged children and is larger than the difference between children from families with graduate degrees versus children whose parents did not finish high school!

At four years of age gobbling a marshmallow now v. waiting for two later is twice as good a predictor of later SAT scores than is IQ. Poor impulse control is also a better predictor of later delinquency than is IQ.

Obviously there's a strong correlation between IQ and impulse control. People who do well in life have lots of both, and vice versa for those who don't do well.

Sociologists have regaled us for years with their theories as to the causes of poverty: lack of education, structural causes, racism. But it seems that, at least where opportunity exists, the reason for differences in income and wealth is that the poor have high impulsivity.

The Just Wait Teen Program

The teenagers of the Just Wait Teen™ program  are exposed to the information and research concerning their Happiness, their Temperaments, their Talents, their Attributes, their Gifts and how to maintain long term relationships. The Just Wait Teen™ program  is life enhancing program, not a substance rehabilitation program. Although its' objective is to give the teens tools and understandings to reach 21 years - substance free.

This Program was developed by the Just Wait Foundation a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit corporation to prevent drug, alcohol, and tobacco problems among teenagers. The Foundation provides one-year scholarships (two semesters) at a Community College or $1000 award to teens that completes the 4 year Just Wait Teen™ Positive Youth Development Program, obtains a GED, or graduates from high school - alcohol, tobacco, and drug free. The Just Wait Foundation has arranged to use of 80 acres to raise fruit and vegetables to finance the scholarships

We offer free training for any person or group that wants to start this program in their community.

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The Self Centering Impact of Knowing Your Strengths and Weaknesses   
Jorj Elprehzleinn

As a world expert in the art and science of manifesting your life with the power of your mind my experience for over 20 years with numerous clients and my own life work in this field has guided me clearly to know that you can greatly refine and improve your ability to imagine a good life for yourself, the better you know your strengths and weaknesses.


Each life is totally unique. One of the weaknesses of that fact is that it makes each one of totally alone in our individuality. A strength of being a unique individual is that you can make a unique contribution to the world, just by being yourself. And you can have a life experience that is custom designed by your own soul to satisfy and fulfill your true hearts desires.

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People can get out of touch with their own heart and soul. People can become programmed by other people, by advertisers, or otherwise influenced to believe and act as if they, (you or me) desire to have or do or be something that is not always in alignment with what we individually and uniquely desire and imagine in our core of self is best for us.


One of the greatest and also one of the most challenging techniques I know of to sharpen your ability to form the thoughts that shape your future life experience to be the most brilliant and wonderful for you is to study your own personal strengths and weaknesses.

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When you study your own strengths and weaknesses you learn things like what kind of relationships work best for you, and what areas you might have consistent problems in relationships. You might learn where is a good area (your talents) to work in to make money, and why some things you try just never seem to work.


There are many ways to discover your strengths and weaknesses. You could start by making a list right now and probably come up with a few items or maybe more. You could interview your friends or family and ask them what are your strengths and weaknesses. You could take any number of psychological tests for career, and relationships especially to determine your strengths and weaknesses.


You could do journaling, and meditating to get to know yourself better in this way.


I currently have two highly favorite systems for determining and working with my own strengths and weaknesses. Did you know that regularly playing cards are legendary for their ability to predict 100% accurately your strengths and weaknesses based only on the date of your birth? Yes, it's true. It is called the destiny card system.


That is one system I am very glad I found out about. And then I use astrology. Both are extremely accurate at portraying the deep strengths and weaknesses that you are born with and giving you the self knowledge that I know from experience is highly valueable in guiding you to imagine the best life for your self.


Why imagine yourself doing something that is not good for you? Find out your strengths and weaknesses, and imagine you do not do what is bad for you, and you do what is good for you. This could be some of the best advice for materializing a good life you ever receive!


Jorj
Elprehzleinn
is a happy spiritual being having a human experience
in the material world. His
techniques, insights, and assistance
in the right use of thought and
mind power are based on a lifetime of research and personal experience.
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