"Marshmallows Best Predictor of Success?"

Working with Emotional Intelligence
by Daniel Goleman

Dr. Goleman did an excellent job with his second book on Emotional Intelligence because he gives more detail on how to correct the lack of Emotional Intelligence in the business and professional world.

On page 26 he tells us how to do a check up on our missing competences for emotional intelligence( both personal and social competencies) and he also mentions that there must be a continious follow up on this program to achieve a lasting effect over the change of our un-wanted bad habits and he alos mentions the guidelines for emotional competence TRAINING which is very helpful in the seminars to train management executives.

Dr. Goleman explains also that it takes months to be able to modify our personality, so that some people will not dispair because they can not get an overnight change, it takes time, perseverance and practice to become a proficient and capable executive with good emotional intelligence. Dr. Goleman also explains the effect that stress has on CONTROL and how it affects mistakes, memory and health and overall management.

In other words Dr. Goleman is helping everybody to modify their personalities to be able to produce more with less stress and wear (or exhaustion).

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Marshmallows Best Predictor of Success?

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The Stanford Marshmallow Experiment

In above video you will see kids participating in the Stanford Marshmallow Experiment. The Stanford Marshmallow Experiment must be the most astounding psychological study ever performed, or at any rate ranking right up there with some of the experiments done by Stanley Milgram.

Who would ever guess that a brief observation of a four-year old alone with a marshmallow would be an excellent predictor of college entrance exam scores — twice as good a predictor as IQ test scores? In one of the most amazing developmental studies ever conducted, Walter Michel of Stanford created a simple test of the ability of four year old children to control impulses and delay gratification.

Children were taken one at a time into a room with a one-way mirror. They were shown a marshmallow. The experimenter told them he had to leave and that they could have the marshmallow right then, but if they waited for the experimenter to return from an errand, they could have two marshmallows. One marshmallow was left on a table in front of them. Some children grabbed the available marshmallow within seconds of the experimenter leaving. Others waited up to twenty minutes for the experimenter to return.

In a follow-up study (Shoda, Mischel, & Peake, 1990), children were tested at 18 years of age and comparisons were made between the third of the children who grabbed the marshmallow (the "impulsive") and the third who delayed gratification in order to receive the enhanced reward ("impulse controlled").

The third of the children who were most impulsive at four years of age scored an average of 524 verbal and 528 math. The impulse controlled students who scored 610 verbal and 652 math! This astounding 210 point total score difference on the SAT was predicted on the basis of a single observation at four years of age! The 210 point difference is as large as the average differences between that of economically advantaged versus disadvantaged children and is larger than the difference between children from families with graduate degrees versus children whose parents did not finish high school!

At four years of age gobbling a marshmallow now v. waiting for two later is twice as good a predictor of later SAT scores than is IQ. Poor impulse control is also a better predictor of later delinquency than is IQ.

Obviously there's a strong correlation between IQ and impulse control. People who do well in life have lots of both, and vice versa for those who don't do well.

Sociologists have regaled us for years with their theories as to the causes of poverty: lack of education, structural causes, racism. But it seems that, at least where opportunity exists, the reason for differences in income and wealth is that the poor have high impulsivity.

The Just Wait Teen Program

The teenagers of the Just Wait Teen™ program  are exposed to the information and research concerning their Happiness, their Temperaments, their Talents, their Attributes, their Gifts and how to maintain long term relationships. The Just Wait Teen™ program  is life enhancing program, not a substance rehabilitation program. Although its' objective is to give the teens tools and understandings to reach 21 years - substance free.

This Program was developed by the Just Wait Foundation a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit corporation to prevent drug, alcohol, and tobacco problems among teenagers. The Foundation provides one-year scholarships (two semesters) at a Community College or $1000 award to teens that completes the 4 year Just Wait Teen™ Positive Youth Development Program, obtains a GED, or graduates from high school - alcohol, tobacco, and drug free. The Just Wait Foundation has arranged to use of 80 acres to raise fruit and vegetables to finance the scholarships

We offer free training for any person or group that wants to start this program in their community.

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Effective SWOT Analysis   
Bob Middleton

You will almost certainly start your SWOT by writing Strengths, Weaknesses, Opportunities and Threats as headings to write under. If you did then stop.

You cannot complete an effective SWOT until you have done some work on your customer base.

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* Who is your target customer? If the answer is 'anyone, anywhere' then you have a problem and need to look at ways of segmenting your target markets so you can 'target' rather than 'broadcast'.


* Why have your existing customers chosen your company? The chances are future customers will use similar reasoning and you need to make it easy for them to make those decisions.

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* Where do you sell? How are you currently getting your stuff to market? Through channel partners, direct, high street store or online. You need to look at the various ways you sell and assess which are working best.


* Who are your competitors? Direct competitors selling the same products or services as you do and indirect competitors selling similar product that might be bought as an alternative.


* Is there legislation that applies to you in your market areas? Check for legislation that can restrict what and how you sell and what service levels you may need to provide after sale. Look for legislation that is in the pipeline, it doesn't have to be negative and can be an opportunity or strength if your company is he first to comply.


Get the idea? The trap you almost fell into is just sitting down and writing a list of bullets under each of the SWOT headings and ending up with a meaningless document that will never be used for anything.
When you do get started on those headings make sure you use as much external input as possible. Below is a starting point and by no means an exhaustive list (we charge for doing those) to get you going in the right direction.


Strengths and Weaknesses are internal while Opportunities and Threats are external.
Strengths


* What do you staff, partners, accountant, customers say are your strengths?


* What are you happy that you are currently getting right?


* Rank your strengths in order based on how they are important to your customers.


* What impresses you most about your key members of staff, they may be strengths for your company.


Opportunities
* Are there things your customers buy from others to add to your product? Why aren't you offering those extras?


* Is every sale maximised? Are there things that are not being sold because sales staff don't know about them or don't know how to sell them?


* Are there any recent changes in buying patterns?


* Are you making best use of the Internet?


* Are you currently seen as experts in your field?


Weaknesses


* What are main the reasons for your lost sales?


* What are the main causes of customer complaint or refund?


* What are your competitors strengths


Threats
* How easy is it for new competitors to enter your market?


* How are your competitors enhancing their products?


* Are there any new technologies that could damage your business in the future?


* Do you own your top customers or do they belong to key members of staff?


Once you have a list the real work starts. Look at each item on your list and make a note of the ones you have control over.


1. Which ones can feed into your product road map to enhance strengths, play to opportunities or mitigate weaknesses and threats?


2. How can you minimise each of the weaknesses?


3. Can threats be turned into opportunities?


If you follow through on the ideas above you will produce a SWOT analysis better than 80% of marketing professionals do.
If you actually act on the findings, that is the whole point after all, then you will be doing better than most companies.


Bob Middleton is an experienced marketer in both product management and product marketing. More recently having added significant search engine marketing and optimisation skills to his toolbag.
More free marketing advice at http://www.marketbuzz.org

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