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To print a copy of an Free Enneagram ebook The study of the Nine Temperaments is called the Enneagram and is described in the free ebook listed above. The Enneagram types (Temperaments) are not made up of lists of character traits, but are founded in a person's core values. Each Temperament represents what that person considers something very important to their life such as power, security, harmony, knowledge, fulfillment, i.e. Your Temperament enables you to make a valuable contributions to your life; but it also causes you to neglect other values, creating a psychological ‘blind spot” for you. This is why, if you: “KEEP DOING WHAT YOU BEEN DOING, YOU WILL CONTINUE TO GET WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN GETTING.” Index of More Articles about Leadership Emotional Intelligence Of Giving 4, 6, And 8 - The Reactive Temperaments Emotional Intelligence What's That Just Wait Teens™ Program Just Wait Foundation Leadership In Governement Life Is Ten Percent 1, 3, And 5 - The Competency Temperaments Leadership Online To Get Happiness Random Acts Of Kindness Really Do Make You Feel Happier And In Control. 2, 7 And 9 - The Positive Temperaments Emotional Intelligence Matter More Than IQ Emotional Intelligence Transform Negative Emotions Emotional Intelligence Set Of Skills Buzz About Emotional Intelligence More Articles about Leadership How to Get Happiness by Susan Dunn, MA, Emotional Intelligence Coach I'm a coach who works with clients on personal and professional development issues. While no client has ever specifically asked me to help them become "happier," I think it's the purpose, yes? Our goals,... Emotional Intelligence Offers a Core Set of Skills to Enhance Leadership Competencies by ron Stock Enhancing the Emotional Intelligence (EI) skills of an organization's leaders offers a solid base upon which to build leadership competencies. In today's competitive business environment leadership is... Emotional Intelligence: Why it can Matter More Than IQ by Daniel Goleman by Prasoon Kumar Feelings play a large role in our lives, and we recognized the fact long ago but gave little importance to understanding it since we simply could not find out more on the subject. Even those research studies... The Buzz About Emotional Intelligence by Pramila Mathew According to Wikipedia, Emotional Intelligence describes the ability, capacity or skill to manage the emotions of oneself, of others and of groups. In 1985, Wayne Leon Payne initially coined the term "Emotional... Just Wait Teens™ program by Carl LaFresnaye The Just Wait Teens™ program has been 8 years in development. The theory behind the program is based on the research of the National Center on Addiction and Substance Abuse. Joseph Califano, the former... 279 by 2,7 and 9 - The Positive Temperaments Types..........................These Temperament Types all respond to conflict and problems by adopting a positive attitude. They have difficulty facing dark side... 135 by 1, 3, and 5 - The Competency Temperaments Types...........................These Temperament Types have learned to deal with conflict and problems by putting aside their personal feelings and striving to... last by Last year, Stanford University psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky decided to put the kindness-fulfillment connection to the test. She asked students to carry out five weekly "random acts of kindness" of their... Emotional Intelligence of Giving by William R. Murray "We make a living by what we get. We make a life by what we give." - Winston Churchill. What are you giving? Are you interested in new ways to give? Here are some possibilities.Give to your favorite non-profit.... Leadership Studies Online by Michael Bustamante Online Leadership Studies Schools offer courses that give students the freedom to attend class anytime from wherever they choose. Programs in Online Leadership Studies prepare students who aspire to upper... The Law of the Garbage Truck by We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches! ... Just Wait Foundation by Carl LaFresnaye The Just Wait Foundation of Denver Colorado is a 501(c)(3) non-profit organization, to prevent teenage alcohol, tobacco, and drug problems by using the Just Wait Teens™ Program. This program does this... Emotional Intelligence: What's That? by Susan Dunn, M.A., Professional Coach You've probably been hearing that emotional intelligence (EQ) is crucial to your success in your career and relationships. Just exactly what is it and why is it so important?Emotional intelligence is what... Leadership And Management Training Programs In Government by Bryce Smith One of the errors made by many people is to think that management leadership training and all the different styles of leadership can just be transferred anywhere, and will be equally applicable in every...

The Yellow Trangle in the above image points to the WITHDRAWN TEMPERAMENTS which move away from doing. They are: Temperament 4– The members of this Temperament are withdrawing from doing the ordinary. The drive is to express their individual uniqueness by doing what they feel instead of what's required. There is also an avoidance of doing because it may reveal their inadequacies and defective self and thus contradict the special self-image that they may have created. The preference is for feeling instead of doing. We call members of this Temperament - Authentic – Originals. Temperament Four examples are: Michael Jackson, Johnny Depp, Nicolas Cage, Neil Diamond, and Angelina Jolie. These people want to be unique individuals with lots of originality. They enjoy putting their personal touch on everything in which they are involved. They also value beauty and want to make the world a more beautiful place to live. Temperament 5 – The members of this Temperament are withdrawing from doing or involvement in activities. It's a movement away from being too overwhelmed by the world, some time to process experience through thinking, and not being ready to play the game until it's understood intellectually. It's not that type five cannot be involved, it's just that there needs to be clear boundaries and an escape route should the experience become too overwhelming. The preference is for thinking instead of doing. We call members of this Temperament - Thinker – Investigators. Temperament Five examples are: Bill Gates, Albert Einstein, Howard Hughes, George Lucas, and Karl Marx. These people long for wisdom, understanding, knowledge, truth. They want to make the world a more enlightened place by discovering what is real and true and making it more intelligible to others. Temperament 9 – The members of this Temperament are withdrawing from doing for the self and sometimes stubbornly resistant against doing what others demand. There is confusion about one's own agenda and priorities. Doing is a tendency to go along with others' agenda. Yet, this member often has never really decided to go along, it's just a matter of going along until they figure out what they want or simply to keep the peace because they have no strong personal agenda anyway. The preference is for being instead of doing (in other words, doing without any purpose or goal). We call members of this Temperament - Peacemaker – Observers. Temperament Nine examples are: Barack Obama, Ronald Reagan, Abraham Lincoln, Jimmy Stewart, Carl Jung, and Dwight Eisenhower. These people want to feel at one with others and at home in the universe. They value peace, harmony, and unity. They envision making the world a more harmonious, ecumenical, and comfortable place to live for everyone. Would You Like Help to Determine your Temperament? Fours Want to Know: Why No one understands me? * 4, 6, And 8 - The Reactive Temperaments 468    4, 6, and 8 the Reactive Temperaments Types........................................These types react emotionally to conflicts and problems. When conflict or problems arise they look for an emotional response from other that mirrors their concern. They want the other to mirror their concerns their emotional state. These types have strong likes and dislikes. These Temperaments have difficulty balancing their need for independence and self-determination with their need to be nurtured and supported by others. They simultaneously trust and distrust others. The need to accept the support and affection of others is a deep desire, but they fear of losing control of themselves and their circumstances. They are either looking for advice and direction or defying it. For Example: Temperament Type 4 want to receive advice and direction Temperament Type 8 want to give advice and direction Temperament Type 6 want to it both ways. They want to give and receive advice and direction. Article to continue below---------------------------------------------- High-end Boutique Vasarri Closing In October Pikesville boutique attracted fashionistas from around the region It finally sank in when Karen Ciurca-Weiner drove to her job this week and saw the sign on the brick wall of the building announcing the... ---------------------------------------------------------------------------- Temperament Type 4 This Temperament Type will react to keep other interested in them by limiting access, playing hard to get and holding on to those who support them. They do this because they feel abandoned. They feel no one will care for them. That they will not have enough support to find and become themselves. They are looking for a rescuer. They want someone to understand them and support their life and dreams. They will react with either their power or weakness intensely to find such a person. Either way it will very reactive. Temperament Type 6 This Temperament Type will react with commitment and reliability while trying to maintain their independence. They will act engaged but also defensive. They do this because they are afraid of being abandoned without support and dependent on others. They are looking for both independence and support. They want someone to rely on someone, but at the same time, look like the strong one. Article to continue below---------------------------------------------- Apathy And Depression Predict Progression From Mild Cognitive Impairment A new study found that apathy and depression significantly predict an individual's progression from mild cognitive impairment (MCI), a disorder of the brain that affects nerve cells involved in thinking... Depression, Music And Color Therapy Can music and color therapy help with depression? Research seems to indicate that certain types of music and color can be just what you need to get a little "pick me up." --------------------------------------------------------------------------- Temperament Type 8 This Temperament Type will react by keeping their guard up. By not letting others get too close. Their toughness protects them from getting hurt and their need for others. They do this because they are afraid of being controlled or dominated by other. They fear intimacy and their soft feelings. They do not want to become vulnerable by trusting or caring too much. They want to be independent and self-reliance. They want to need others as little as possible to be their own person. Temperament Three (3) examples are: Oprah Winfrey, Tom Cruise, Tiger Woods, Lance Armstrong, and Bill Clinton. These people are attracted to and value productivity, industry, and competence. They envision making the world more productive, organized, efficient, and smooth running. They see the universe as chaos and want to really make it a cosmos, a harmonious and orderly system. Would You Like Help to Determine your Temperament? Temperament Six (6) examples are: Helen Palmer, Michael Moore, Tom Hanks, Rush Limbaugh, Richard Nixon, and Mel Gibson. These people want to make the world a safer, more secure, more reliable, more trustworthy place to live and they will question anyone’s authority in their effort to do so. They value loyalty in themselves and others and stand by their commitments. Would You Like Help to Determine your Temperament? Temperament Eight (8) examples are: Martin Luther King, Jr., FDR, Sean Connery, Donald Trump, and John Wayne. These people want to live life fully and freely. They are attracted to, appreciate, and effectively use power. They envision using their strength to influence others and bring about a more just world where power and resources are equitably distributed. Would You Like Help to Determine your Temperament? Why do we use numbers? Names such as: Fours are the: Individualist, Artist, Over-Analyzer, Mystic, Tastemaker or Romantic are commonly used to decribed the Temperaments Types. We use numbers instead of any names. We use numbers to designate each of the Temperament Types because numbers are value neutral. They imply the whole range of attitudes and behaviors of each Temperament without specifying anything either positive or negative. The numerical ranking of the Types is not significant. A larger number is no better than a smaller number. No Temperament Type is inherently better or worse than any other. While all the Temperament Types have unique assets and liabilities, some Types are often more desirable than others in our society. You may not be happy with your particular Type. You may feel that your Type is “limited" in some way. As you learn more about all the Types, you will see that just as each has unique capacities, each has different “limits.” People do not change from one basic Temperament Type to another. Some Types are more valued in our society than others; it is because of the qualities that society rewards, not because of any superior value of those Types. The descriptions of the Temperament Types apply equally to males and females, since no Type is inherently masculine or feminine. Not everything in the description of your basic Type will apply to you all the time because you fluctuate constantly. What is Barack Obama Temperament? Daniel Goldman, author of Emotional Intelligence The Just Wait Teen Program The teenagers of the Just Wait Teen™ program  are exposed to the information and research concerning their Happiness, their Temperaments, their Talents, their Attributes, their Gifts and how to maintain long term relationships. The Just Wait Teen™ program  is life enhancing program, not a substance rehabilitation program. Although its' objective is to give the teens tools and understandings to reach 21 years - substance free. This Program was developed by the Just Wait Foundation a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit corporation to prevent drug, alcohol, and tobacco problems among teenagers. The Foundation provides one-year scholarships (two semesters) at a Community College or $1000 award to teens that completes the 4 year Just Wait Teen™ Positive Youth Development Program, obtains a GED, or graduates from high school - alcohol, tobacco, and drug free. The Just Wait Foundation has arranged to use of 80 acres to raise fruit and vegetables to finance the scholarships We offer free training for any person or group that wants to start this program in their community. Contact Us    Copyright 2009  - 2010 & Developed by  Just Wait Teens

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