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The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Peopler by Stephen R. Covey

Knowledge is the quickest and safest path to success in any area of life. Stephen Covey has encapsulated the strategies used by all those who are highly effective. Success can be learned and this book is an excellent way to learn how to do that.

As the title of the book implies, Covey describes the seven habits of highly effective people and techniques for adopting the seven habits. Covey makes clear that an individual must make a paradigm shift before incorporating these habits into his/her own personal life. A paradigm is essentially the way an individual perceives something. Covey emphasizes that if we want to make a change in our lives, we should probably first focus on our personal attitudes and behaviors. He applies different examples via family, business, and society in general.

This book's focal point is on an approach to obtain personal and interpersonal effectiveness. Covey points out that private victories precede public victories. He makes the example that making and keeping promises to ourselves comes before making and keeping promises to others.

The above video descrides an attitude is 10 percent what happens and 90 percent reaction. To achieve the transformation a peoson must first seek, to tap into the other person's hearts first and then focus on their thinking. People think they work for money…where in fact they are coming to work to get the money to spend on their dreams, goals, and families etc. When you tap into that perspective and there is an adjustment in the other peoson's thinking, attitude and performance. Human nature ensures everyone wants to be loved or appreciated and some people have not learnt how to achieve that at work.      

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Positive affirmations dramatically improves life outcomes such as health, relationships, prosperity and self-esteem. What are they and how do they work?Affirming positive thoughts using positive affirmations...

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The Most Important Ingredient that goes in to the Recipe for Success in Business....   
Bradley Allen Hensley

Start out this article with one of the most important ingredients in the recipe for success in business.

This ingredient is also critical for success in all of the other areas of our lives ie; spiritual, social, physical etc., but for this particular topic we will be focusing on business..., yes our professional life.

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It seams as though the phrase “positive thinking” has been around forever. How many times have heard someone say, just think positive? However, before we can put the powers of positive thinking to work in our professional life, we first need to understand what the phrase “positive thinking” really means, and how to put it to work in business.


Positive thinking can also be described as a type of attitude. You and I have met people who are happy, optimistic, vivacious etc., right? These people are usually described as having positive attitudes and expressing positive thoughts. In other words, people who are consistently "looking at the glass as half full rather than half empty" are utilizing positive thinking.

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Positive Attitude And Friendliness Make Dyer Clerk A GEM (The Times Of Northwest Indiana)
Kathy Kooy is a real GEM at St. Margaret Mercy in Dyer.

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So, now we know how to describe positive thinking, but what is it? One explanation would be that positive thinking is the act of reviewing our thought processes and personal actions for areas that need improvement and for areas with negative implications, and then utilizing the appropriate tools in order to change those thoughts or actions in a positive, goal-oriented way.


How does positive thinking work? One way to put it is that positive thinking begins with a conscious desire to pay attention to and recognize the positive trait in any situation. Once the positive trait, of a thought or situation can be recognized, then the process of positive thinking can be utilized. Essentially, the ability to pinpoint and utilize the positive in our thoughts and actions, enables us to better reach our goals and objectives, and make a positive impact on all of our endeavors.


The actual process of positive thinking works to bring about desired outcomes in our professional lives in a variety of different ways. By acting in a positive way we naturally draw positive people to ourselves. By believing in positive outcomes we more readily accept them as fact and open ourselves to their reality. By thinking positive thoughts we are better able to see alternate, more advantageous routes to take, in order to attain our desired outcome. By accepting a positive way of thinking we are not only better able to see the path to success but also better able to use our know-how to get there.


Positive thinking is a skill that can be acquired by anyone, with consistent practice.
This simple process of positive thinking involves consciously searching for the positive trait in any situation, recognizing the benefits of that positive trait and then employing a can-do attitude to follow through with that positive trait to the desired outcome.


In summary, positive thinking is the foundation for success not only in our professional life, but also in every other area of our life. Visit one of my favorites www.GlobalOnlineEnterprises.com



Bradley Allen Hensley,
Real Estate Consultant/Investor/Author/Netprenuer

The Just Wait Teen Program

The teenagers of the Just Wait Teen™ program  are exposed to the information and research concerning their Happiness, their Temperaments, their Talents, their Attributes, their Gifts and how to maintain long term relationships. The Just Wait Teen™ program  is life enhancing program, not a substance rehabilitation program. Although its' objective is to give the teens tools and understandings to reach 21 years - substance free.

This Program was developed by the Just Wait Foundation a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit corporation to prevent drug, alcohol, and tobacco problems among teenagers. The Foundation provides one-year scholarships (two semesters) at a Community College or $1000 award to teens that completes the 4 year Just Wait Teen™ Positive Youth Development Program, obtains a GED, or graduates from high school - alcohol, tobacco, and drug free. The Just Wait Foundation has arranged to use of 80 acres to raise fruit and vegetables to finance the scholarships

We offer free training for any person or group that wants to start this program in their community.

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The Stanford Marshmallow Experiment

The Stanford Marshmallow Experiment must be the most astounding psychological study ever performed, or at any rate ranking right up there with some of the experiments done by Stanley Milgram.

Who would ever guess that a brief observation of a four-year old alone with a marshmallow would be an excellent predictor of college entrance exam scores — twice as good a predictor as IQ test scores? In one of the most amazing developmental studies ever conducted, Walter Michel of Stanford created a simple test of the ability of four year old children to control impulses and delay gratification.

Children were taken one at a time into a room with a one-way mirror. They were shown a marshmallow. The experimenter told them he had to leave and that they could have the marshmallow right then, but if they waited for the experimenter to return from an errand, they could have two marshmallows. One marshmallow was left on a table in front of them. Some children grabbed the available marshmallow within seconds of the experimenter leaving. Others waited up to twenty minutes for the experimenter to return.

In a follow-up study (Shoda, Mischel, & Peake, 1990), children were tested at 18 years of age and comparisons were made between the third of the children who grabbed the marshmallow (the "impulsive") and the third who delayed gratification in order to receive the enhanced reward ("impulse controlled").

The third of the children who were most impulsive at four years of age scored an average of 524 verbal and 528 math. The impulse controlled students who scored 610 verbal and 652 math! This astounding 210 point total score difference on the SAT was predicted on the basis of a single observation at four years of age! The 210 point difference is as large as the average differences between that of economically advantaged versus disadvantaged children and is larger than the difference between children from families with graduate degrees versus children whose parents did not finish high school!

At four years of age gobbling a marshmallow now v. waiting for two later is twice as good a predictor of later SAT scores than is IQ. Poor impulse control is also a better predictor of later delinquency than is IQ.

Obviously there's a strong correlation between IQ and impulse control. People who do well in life have lots of both, and vice versa for those who don't do well.

Sociologists have regaled us for years with their theories as to the causes of poverty: lack of education, structural causes, racism. But it seems that, at least where opportunity exists, the reason for differences in income and wealth is that the poor have high impulsivity.

The Just Wait Teen Program

The teenagers of the Just Wait Teen™ program  are exposed to the information and research concerning their Happiness, their Temperaments, their Talents, their Attributes, their Gifts and how to maintain long term relationships. The Just Wait Teen™ program  is life enhancing program, not a substance rehabilitation program. Although its' objective is to give the teens tools and understandings to reach 21 years - substance free.

This Program was developed by the Just Wait Foundation a 501 (c)(3) nonprofit corporation to prevent drug, alcohol, and tobacco problems among teenagers. The Foundation provides one-year scholarships (two semesters) at a Community College or $1000 award to teens that completes the 4 year Just Wait Teen™ Positive Youth Development Program, obtains a GED, or graduates from high school - alcohol, tobacco, and drug free. The Just Wait Foundation has arranged to use of 80 acres to raise fruit and vegetables to finance the scholarships

We offer free training for any person or group that wants to start this program in their community.

Contact Us    Copyright 2009  - 2010 & Developed by  Just Wait Teens

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